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authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 10:51 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013
Watch a Lifetime movie marathon about killers, of course. 
Definitely going to double lock the doors and windows tonight. And check them twice!
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 11:21 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013
Ha I've done the same! Stay safe 
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 11:59 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013
Thanks.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 1:02 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I wouldn't worry too much. The bears should take care of most of the killers 
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
authenticnow (original poster member #16024) posted at 1:31 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:33 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
When I was away from home as a road warrior or when my W was away, I too watched movies I couldn't watch when she was around - a little porn, but mainly classic movies that were tense thrillers or violent. Classics, not Lifetime.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Mauimom1 ( member #35848) posted at 4:42 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I absolutely do not cook dinner. Take out for the kiddos every night!
stilllovinghim ( member #29971) posted at 7:26 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Either watch something like Steel Magnolias or Terms of Endearment.
I've been known to also meticulously clean the house and plan my escape route keeping in mind where the nearest knives were in case I was attacked when my H used to work nights. Why clean the house meticulously you ask? So that: 1) if the cops show up with a camera crew the house would look nice...aside from my dead body and 2) its easier to dust for prints and collect evidence. Swear to Christ that was my train of thought. 
[This message edited by stilllovinghim at 1:26 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)]
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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:48 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I once watched The Signs at my dad's house when I was alone - at 3am.... in a room with glass doors with no shutters.
Gluttons for punishment, we are. 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
wannabenormal ( member #19772) posted at 7:55 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I used to wait for him to call, while I slept on his side of the bed...after I set house alarm.
One night house alarm goes off at like 3am. It's me and kids, SHIT! I grab XH's bat from under his side of bed and venture out of the bedroom. If I didn't have kids - I would've laid there crying/whizzing self...but I had kids.
Alarm people call - WBN, is everything ok? I say, I don't know, I have a wood bat and am walking downstairs.
Alarm people - ok, well we can't really stay on the phone.
WBN - you g.d. better!!! I have 2 babies, you are NOT letting me go!
Dude stays on.
Come to find my silly ass cat clawed open a door that triggered the alarm! Oops! TTYL, alarm peeps! I'm out.
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