Topic: Guess what!?!? I'm Engaged!!!
Member # 13813
| Posted: 10:53 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
6 years ago today my SO and I met. The first time we actually saw each other was for coffee one morning at McDonald's. For sentimental reasons, he took me there today before we went out to a nice dinner. We were sitting there and he popped the question! He had a beautiful engagement ring in a pretty box in his pocket, pulled it out, and asked me if I'd be his wife.
I was stunned speechless!!! When my voice finally returned I croaked out a "yes" (at least I think I said it out loud!) and started crying....and crying....and crying. He was teary eyed, too.
For anyone who has doubts, there IS a light at the end of the tunnel...and it is beautiful.
Thank you to everyone at SI for helping me heal and get to this point. I love you all.
Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.
Posts: 2451 | Registered: Mar 2007
Member # 14866
| Posted: 11:07 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
Posts: 54405 | Registered: Jun 2007
|Sad in AZ|
Member # 24239
| Posted: 11:49 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 24829 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Southern New Mexico
Member # 2027
| Posted: 12:04 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.
When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE him.
OC born 2001
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)
Posts: 8320 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
Member # 19595
| Posted: 12:12 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Your light (at the end of the infidelity tunnel) is shining very brightly !
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20487 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
Member # 27457
| Posted: 12:13 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
Posts: 2767 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
Member # 12908
| Posted: 12:15 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Yay! This could not happen to a better person!
BH - no longer 50
3 DD's - (30, 26 and 19)
Divorced on 8/6/09
Posts: 9204 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: ND
Member # 10552
| Posted: 12:16 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15883 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 34426
| Posted: 12:20 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Congratulations... That's awesome
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
Posts: 682 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
Member # 31468
| Posted: 1:58 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Congrats and best wishes!
Status: D 2011
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling
Posts: 5262 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 31528
| Posted: 4:00 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Posts: 49180 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 25041
| Posted: 7:41 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
I love the engagement posts. I'm such a romantic. At this point in my life I live romance vicariously through my SI family. I hope someday I will posting one of these but until then thanks for posting.
Posts: 1206 | Registered: Aug 2009
Member # 27148
| Posted: 9:40 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Congrats...and i love your tagline.
The old story really doesn't matter anymore.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Posts: 4353 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 30341
| Posted: 11:30 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
BEST WISHES!!! So sweet that he took you to McDonald's to pop the question!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:54
Posts: 4013 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Member # 39204
| Posted: 1:19 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Me. - moving on and upward !!!
Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Great Britain
Member # 24261
| Posted: 1:35 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Congrats and Best Wishes
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
Posts: 5125 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Scotland
Member # 10798
| Posted: 1:46 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Congratulations! I love hearing these stories and I really needed it today.
Best wishes for a lifetime of happiness!
Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James
Posts: 2264 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
Member # 15584
| Posted: 1:59 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Failure is success if we learn from it.
3 boys: 10.5 years, 9 years, and 10 months
Posts: 4698 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Member # 14193
| Posted: 2:03 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Congrats! =) That's a really sweet story. So happy to hear this!
35 - FBSO
“Integrity has no need of rules.”
Posts: 957 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Maryland.
Member # 8142
| Posted: 2:03 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013|
Wishing you both all the best!!!
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
Posts: 25782 | Registered: Sep 2005
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