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User Topic: I have a super power!
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Somebody recently told me that ex-shat said he had to get out of our marriage because...ready for this?...I was driving him to commit suicide!

Holy shit! To think that I have so much power over another person that I can make them want to commit suicide!! Watch out world, I am one evil bitch!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4734 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, you can't have that super power.....that one is mine
I have heard this one before too. Sad ain't it? They can't even accept responsibility for their own thoughts.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1800 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm probably a really bad person for saying this (especially on Sunday), but it's almost too bad when someone like him realizes something like that in time.

<slap> oh, really can't believe that actually came out on the page....

You are one powerful, evil bitch!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2463 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
roughroadahead
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wonder if they ever realize how utterly ridiculous that sounds when said out loud to a normal person?

Probably not...


BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism

Posts: 739 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: USA
Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah ok if a spouse is so horrible that it causes a "drive to commit suicide", then by all means don't try marital counseling and don't ask for a divorce. Have an affair instead! because that solves everything.

Who cares about integrity or causing pain to others?

Posts: 4725 | Registered: Dec 2009
Loyalty2Liberty
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Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wonder if they ever realize how utterly ridiculous that sounds when said out loud to a normal person?

Nope. Immunity to reality is their superpower.

[This message edited by Loyalty2Liberty at 11:10 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)]


me:BW
him:stbxWh


Posts: 236 | Registered: Sep 2012
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

:face:palm:


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17692 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to the super power club!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4801 | Registered: Feb 2008
scotslass
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Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can I join the "SPC" ?


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
SBB
♀ 35229
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh I do love it when they show everyone else what fuckwits they are.

I mean besides infidelity - just in general.

The Irish call it "showing his arse".

Its really not that hard to keep it in your pants dude.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5656 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its really not that hard to keep it in your pants dude.

If they could all keep their own parts in their own pants, there wouldn't be a SI site...

Tesla, I might want to introduce you to someone.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2463 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Apparently my super power is the double post.. Sigh..

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 1:54 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)]


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2658 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tesla, I might want to introduce you to someone.

I was thinking the same thing.. I'm wondering how far your powers work


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2658 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, if that's how he feels around you, then I'm glad to hear that you've been using your powers for good.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3642 | Registered: Oct 2011
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The power dynamic between you and your ex reminds me so much of me and my ex. In both cases it was a weak, victim-minded man with a strong, intelligent, capable woman who for some reason closed her eyes and lowered herself to his level... For reasons none of us understand.

It's good to be rid of them, isn't it?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13862 | Registered: Jul 2011
tesla
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In both cases it was a weak, victim-minded man with a strong, intelligent, capable woman who for some reason closed her eyes and lowered herself to his level... For reasons none of us understand.

Sadly, so incredibly true!

And yes, feels great to be freed of such a dead weight.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4734 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can cause heart attacks. In fact, I have caused heart attacks. Without even trying. I'm a Super Bitch. Feel the powah!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10012 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have that power, too! Except mine only effects him after the infidelity and he has to deal with the aftermath...ya know...a heartbroken wife who can't rug sweep everything to make HIM feel better. So if Tesla can't get him...I will.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 34 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1731 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wonder if they ever realize how utterly ridiculous that sounds when said out loud to a normal person?

Nope. Immunity to reality is their superpower.


^^^^ THIS.

My little super power is to cause hurricanes to hit our state. All 5 of the hurricanes in 2005 and most of them since then all hit on his weekends with the kids. It was all my fault. He even told the judge, his lawyer...

Sigh...I also caused his High Blood Pressure...I think I caused her lupus also.

Just ask him.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He even told the judge, his lawyer...

Oh no he didn't!!

My only superpower is the one that caused him to cheat. I think we all have that.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5656 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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