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User Topic: Feeling optimistic today
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had a small setback the other day when STBX mentioned that he would be in Europe again for work next month. I know that OW will be accompanying him. I always wanted to go along on his international trips, but I was always home with small children and no one to leave them with. We always said when the kids were a little older we could all go.

Well, obviously that will never happen now. Then, out of the blue my 5 year old dd asked if we could go to Paris one day. I thought about it and said, yes we can and we will! It probably won't happen for several years, but I'm going to open up a "Paris" savings account and just add small amounts to it monthly. I figure it's a goal that me and my kids can have together.

Who wants to be stuck in Europe with that lying douchebag anyway? I'd much rather experience it with my children.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 1268 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

absolutely LOVE the idea of a Paris savings account and absolutely LOVE your attitude!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:54

Posts: 4130 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's an awesome idea! Good for you newlysingle!

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like a great plan!

Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.

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