I am having a really hard time coping with the intense hatred I feel for the two recent OWs. Not quite so much for Coworker #2 - I really feel a greater amount of pity for her than hatred, because she is clearly a person who has very low self-esteem and is searching for anyone to give her any sort of validation. I actually was friends with her on Facebook until DDay, and I sent her a facebook message telling her, briefly, that I saw the texts she sent and what I thought of her. She sent a brief reply and was actually quite contrite and apologized.
Coworker #1, on the other hand... I sort of fantasize about doing her physical harm. Looking back, I realize now that this was not just text conversations that crossed a line, this was really a blossoming EA. (That assumes that WH is telling the truth that there was never any PA.) She knew he was married with a family. She still flirted with him all day at work, and tried to arrange dates with him, and sent him nude photos of herself in sexual poses. Even AFTER Dday, when he sent her a message telling her that I knew and that he didn't want to lose his marriage over her, she continued to try to test the waters, bring him gifts of baked goods at work, and let him know he was welcome to come visit her at her place if he wanted.
I was not facebook friends with her and have never met or spoken to her, but I look at her facebook page sometimes. I hate the stupid profile photos she puts up, always leering into the camera. I also hate the stupid cover photos that she changes frequently. I noticed that before Dday, the cover photos were often quotes revolving around new relationships. After Dday, the tone shifted - there was one that said something like, "please just be honest with me, don't lead me on".
What is wrong with these skanks?!?!?!? I know that there has been inappropriate flirting with other coworkers in the past as well. Is there something in the air when people walk into that building?? I just want to line them all up and tell them to stop being such disgusting whores and focus on doing the jobs they are being paid to do while they are at work!!
It is hard for me to not send a message to Coworker #1 cussing her out. But I know that it wouldn't help anything, and it would probably just piss me off more because this tramp would not be contrite, I'm sure.
ETA: I also get really pissed at WH as I realize how his coworkers must all look at me. How pathetic I must seem to them. He seems to think that he was very discreet about all of his activities, but I think that is a bunch of crap.
[This message edited by MylarPineapples at 12:24 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)]