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fb questions re: fbfriends I never invited

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 sullymeishadomi (original poster member #16305) posted at 2:42 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

I normally dont check my friends list but I ended up there bc I was trying to figure how to like continuously a page. Well, I found five friends I never invited or knew were on my page. I went to click on there names to get more info and all five had deactivated their pages.

Initially I locked down my page bc of wh little, uhem, friend but now its bc my kids photos are on my page. I have around 60 friends andwith the exception of less than ten, these people are either distant relatives or friends from my youth.

How is it possible these friends ended up on my page without my knowledge?

Time to be my own bff.

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 3:10 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

They may have sent a friend request to you, and you inadvertently accepted them.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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 sullymeishadomi (original poster member #16305) posted at 3:14 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

Ive been super careful about who I friend. I have to know that person. I was on my friends list two months ago so I could send a mssg to one of them. I never saw those five people

And all five have pages that have been deactivated?

Time to be my own bff.

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 3:22 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

Copying and pasting my response to another thread:

Change your FB AND your email passwords to something strong, nonsensical, and un-guessable. I look at my keyboard and randomly choose 12 characters- a mix of letters, numbers, and symbols.

Write it down, put it in a safe place (away from H), and don't share it with ANYONE.

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little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 4:01 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

Any chance someone else accepted/added them without you knowing?

Failure is success if we learn from it.

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 11:52 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013

If get you can get on a computer instead of your phone, you can look at your activity log and see when they were added. I'll PM you.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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