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User Topic: Blended family
♀ 38812
Member # 38812
Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are there any threads regarding blended families? I have two step daughters I have basically raised and a son with WH. He has full custody but I have no legal rights. I want out but don't want to leave my beautiful girls.

Posts: 3 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Ct
♀ 23890
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Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Never)) Maybe post this question down in D/S where there is some experience with this. (I personally know of some blended family that continue to see step children after D by mutual consent but beyond that...I'm clueless)

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4432 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
♀ 36654
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This has been discussed in S/D forum. Some still see their step-kids and some had to make the hard decision to leave them behind and save themselves and their own kids. I think it depends on how much of an ass the WS really wants to be. Luckily I never raised any of my step-children from either of my marriages and they all have lived out of state so we never became really close, but it still hurts not to be in their lives anymore. I really feel for your situation. (((HUGS)))

BS-55 XWH#2-No longer my monkey
M-11yrs LTA-5yrs Divorced 8/15
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"

Posts: 9061 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
♀ 38812
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you! I will check there.

Posts: 3 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Ct
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