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peridot (original poster member #18334) posted at 6:42 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
The last time I spoke with the IRS they told me I wouldn't hear from them about the investigation. They would only contact me if I need to testify. I figured if either the OW or my XH were charged it would show up on the state court website. So I've been looking every now and then.
On Friday there was a case filed against the OW. I don't know what it's for. All I can see is that it's a criminal felony. It doesn't say what the crime was yet. Only that it had been initially filed. It doesn't even show if she's been arrested.
I sure hope it updates tomorrow. Either the IRS has caught her or she's done something else. She has a long criminal history.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 6:47 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Hell yeah! Hope they both get nailed!
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 7:14 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Oh I can't wait to hear! You must keep us posted.
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 7:20 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Puhlease keep us posted!!
peridot (original poster member #18334) posted at 7:29 AM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
As soon as they post something I will let ya'll know. I'm hoping they update tomorrow, in the morning would be nice. I just hope it's the IRS going after her. If he's involved, I hope they nail his ass also.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 12:50 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Oh, this is good! I'll pop the popcorn. 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
nomistakeaboutit ( member #36857) posted at 1:10 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Prediction of the charges:
1. Grand theft of another person's trust.
2. Willful neglect.
3. Torture.
4. Murder of a marriage.
Guilty on all counts. Sentence. Life.
Me: BH 65.........Her: WW 55
DD: 15.......DS: 12. (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 2:34 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Oh Peridot, I wonder what it will be?
Hopefully something really big that will cost OW a lot of money and time to get out of...if she can at all! 
I made a discovery that gives me the chills and wonder what will happen because of it... on the financial statement for the divorce papers, Perv put a figure that isn't the same as what I actually receive for CS!
It's double the amount.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 2:45 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Here's hoping they are able to nail her disgusting ass, and throw away the key... And that your x is named as a co conspiritor and gets his ass locked up too...while being forced to scrub toilets with a toothbrush to earn money to send to you for cs...
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
peridot (original poster member #18334) posted at 3:48 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Dangit, it's just for a hot check. She probably won't do any time for it. They usually just slap you on the wrist for a hot check in my state. However, she is still on probation for shop lifting.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:00 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
A felony and they just slap her wrist? 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
peridot (original poster member #18334) posted at 4:08 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
A felony and they just slap her wrist?
Anything over $500 is a felony here. Back in my younger days(lol) I had a friend who was arrested during a yearly warrant sweep that my state does. She had written a hot check.
She made a plea bargain and pled guilty to a misdeamnor. She was put on probabtion, had to pay the check she wrote and court costs.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:47 PM on Monday, June 24th, 2013
Yes, but if she's violated the conditions of her parole, she will go back to jail.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
peridot (original poster member #18334) posted at 11:43 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013
She has a warrant out for her arrest. The court website has an address for her that they haven't lived at in over a year. I think maybe the sheriff's office needs an updated address.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 12:00 AM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:02 AM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Hmm... I wonder who could provide them that address?
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
peridot (original poster member #18334) posted at 1:15 AM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Hmm... I wonder who could provide them that address?
I have no idea lmao!
On another note, it's that time of year again to drive by and see if I still have his current address so I can mail him receipts for all these medical bills.
I used to let him know before he received any large bills since he's responsible for 80%. My son is getting braces soon. I have no way to contact him. Guess it will be a shock lmao!
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 4:17 AM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Lord knows I'm no tax expert, but I was under the impression that anything the IRS filed would be in federal court. Try a website called PACER.
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
peridot (original poster member #18334) posted at 4:56 AM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Thanks for that info roughroadahead. I've been looking in the wrong place.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
peridot (original poster member #18334) posted at 7:01 AM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013
She must have been arrested or turned her self in. The stupid bitch pled not guilty. How the hell are you not guilty of writing hot checks lmao!
There's a hearing next month.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
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