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Topic: 7 months out

libertyrocks
♀ 38924
Member # 38924

Posted: 12:36 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

7 months and 10 days out...
I'm not sure I'm going to make it with him. I don't think I want to...I think it will be harder once that one year mark comes.

How does he think he can just fall back in love with me?? Because he doesn't want to be a 35 year old loser single dad...

Feeling sick and tired today.

I'm usually in good spirits, but not today. Got really bad triggers all weekend long. He was great at being remorseful. But, I'm afraid it's not going to be enough.

Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)

Lalagirl
♀ 14576
Member # 14576

Posted: 12:38 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

(((((libertyrocks))))))

Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-31 & 27
5yo GS,2yo GD & 5 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5223 | Registered: May 2007

SuperDuperWonderboy
♂ 34716
Member # 34716

Posted: 12:40 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

7 months was a tough time for me as well. Sorry you are struggling.

My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.

Posts: 1317 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett

libertyrocks
♀ 38924
Member # 38924

Posted: 12:42 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

Thanks everyone.

I like where you'r at, wonderboy. You're most recent profile update gives me hope...

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 2:35 PM, June 24th (Monday)]

Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)

LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384

Posted: 4:10 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

((libertyrocks))...sorry you are feeling down.

Do you not believe he is falling in love with you? Or do you just not care?

Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2965 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh

libertyrocks
♀ 38924
Member # 38924

Posted: 5:09 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

Hi LA44.

I really don't give a shit anymore...He already burned me. I think when one's dealing with an alchoholic serial cheater, it's a little different. He didn't even love any of them like a semi-normal human being...just drinking and fucking. Sorry for the foul language. This place is my venting place. If you met me IRL, I don't swear or even say bad things. Ever. The foul language is my alter-ego.

Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)

LA44
♀ 38384
Member # 38384

Posted: 8:22 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

Oh that's okay LR. I am not offended by the "colourful" language. I said things in the last 6 months that I didn't know I had in me!

Hugs to you, girl.

Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2965 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh

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