Your best bet is to give yourself lots of breaks. Let you be you, with all your strengths and weaknesses.
The fast way to recovery is to go slow. The slow way is to push yourself to go faster.
You're angry today, and you realize it? That's great!
I know what you mean! I swear if it's not anger then it is depression and then it is like okay I can handle this and before I know it I am angry again
You meant your commitments on a profound level and you've shown it...you've shown how loyal, despite betrayal, you are.
He isn't you. You aren't stupid at all...you are worthy of the same as you've put out.
You are not stupid. You are priceless and should be valued as such.
I love this response. It helped me today too.
Were all here for you Liberty! Vent away!
Have you revisited the reasons why you ARE trying to R?
Are you moving toward something stronger and better between the two of you, or are you torturing yourself for a year? In all seriousness and gently here, if he's a lying, cheating, betraying asshole who causes you pain,,why are you still with him?
No mistake, yes, I was torturing myself over what he wouldn't tell me...
Thaks sisoon. You're awesome and always have words of wisdom.
Beautiful Empty, yes, I feel it's been DDay #1 dragging for 7 months...
Love you, crazy. We always seem to be in the same boat...
You're all awesome and I value you all so much.