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Topic: No! I don't want to 'talk'! (mega rant)

NoTriangles
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Member # 35985

Posted: 8:01 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

So Ftard has been reaching out since the layoff announcement last week. Apparently, he sees this event as the latest acceptable segue.

(I'm dumping this here so I don't reply.)

It's the usual trying to reminisce and wanting to 'banter' and then, 4 times now, "I would like to talk live".

Sure, I still have a million questions regarding a life I cant make sense of. But will I ever get honest answers from him? Absolutely not!!!

I know how this story ends. He wants to reminisce and 'connect' and then he'll say something heart-crushing like "I knew what I was doing when I left you" and then in the next breath he'll say "I was retarded" (my apologies to any truly handicapped people of this world). Bottom line is I will only get more pain and he skips off back to FucktardLand.

So, tell me, Fuckface, do you think that if I respond to your jokes and your 'I was just trying to be cute' bullshit, that it will somehow absolve you of all the heinous things you did to me?? Do you think that would somehow mean we are cool? That I have forgiven you? That what you did to me was okay? Ahem. Not. Even. Close!!

Healthy people don't do such things to people they supposedly love. If they do, they are either a narcissist/sociopath or a man-child. Neither of which I want in my life. What you did will NEVER be forgotten and it will never be forgiven in the absence of true remorse. (And we all know that a pig will fly out of my butt before THAT happens, you cowardly, lying traitor.)

YOU. CHOSE.

LIVE WITH IT!!

Peace out Assmunch,

[This message edited by NoTriangles at 8:04 PM, June 24th (Monday)]

Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness

MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866

Posted: 9:29 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

Great rant NT

I hope that he will go away quietly.

AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 53988 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation

nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226

Posted: 10:11 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

((((NT))))

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 28379 | Registered: Aug 2011

jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531

Posted: 10:16 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013

(((NT)))

Good Rant!

Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 25027 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida

gonnabe2016
♀ 34823
Member # 34823

Posted: 12:10 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

O.M.G. I cannot believe that FT is STILL reaching out to you after all of this time.

How annoying.....

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

Posts: 8438 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest

caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622

Posted: 12:16 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

(((NT)))

great rant!

on a completely separate note, YOU have a quote in the quote thread down in F&G... Getting in the quote thread always gives me warm fuzzies.

Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 6052 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place

libertyrocks
♀ 38924
Member # 38924

Posted: 12:32 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

Nice!

Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)

sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240

Posted: 12:53 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

I want you to know that your rants help me. I read 'em and substitute the stuff that's pissing me off and I feel better.

I'm very sorry that ft is still giving you reasons to rant, though.

(((NT)))

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 11141 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area

SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024

Posted: 1:08 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

(((NT))) Why can't they just leave us alone when they made it so obvious and hurtful at one point or another that they didn't want anything to do with us? Now that they want to have us back in their lives, we are supposed to be all

"Really? You want to talk to me live? Oooohhhhh, can't wait. Goody, goody, goody!" *jumping up and down with joy*

Just. Freakin'. Un. Be. Liev. Able.

BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 10514 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA

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