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User Topic: No! I don't want to 'talk'! (mega rant)
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So Ftard has been reaching out since the layoff announcement last week. Apparently, he sees this event as the latest acceptable segue.

(I'm dumping this here so I don't reply.)

It's the usual trying to reminisce and wanting to 'banter' and then, 4 times now, "I would like to talk live".

Sure, I still have a million questions regarding a life I cant make sense of. But will I ever get honest answers from him? Absolutely not!!!

I know how this story ends. He wants to reminisce and 'connect' and then he'll say something heart-crushing like "I knew what I was doing when I left you" and then in the next breath he'll say "I was retarded" (my apologies to any truly handicapped people of this world). Bottom line is I will only get more pain and he skips off back to FucktardLand.

So, tell me, Fuckface, do you think that if I respond to your jokes and your 'I was just trying to be cute' bullshit, that it will somehow absolve you of all the heinous things you did to me?? Do you think that would somehow mean we are cool? That I have forgiven you? That what you did to me was okay? Ahem. Not. Even. Close!!

Healthy people don't do such things to people they supposedly love. If they do, they are either a narcissist/sociopath or a man-child. Neither of which I want in my life. What you did will NEVER be forgotten and it will never be forgiven in the absence of true remorse. (And we all know that a pig will fly out of my butt before THAT happens, you cowardly, lying traitor.)



Peace out Assmunch,


[This message edited by NoTriangles at 8:04 PM, June 24th (Monday)]

Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great rant NT

I hope that he will go away quietly.

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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Good Rant!

Me: BSO - 49
Him: FWSO - 72
DS - 16
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Default  Posted: 12:10 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

O.M.G. I cannot believe that FT is STILL reaching out to you after all of this time.

How annoying.....

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

Posts: 9188 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
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Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


great rant!

on a completely separate note, YOU have a quote in the quote thread down in F&G... Getting in the quote thread always gives me warm fuzzies.

Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.

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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want you to know that your rants help me. I read 'em and substitute the stuff that's pissing me off and I feel better.

I'm very sorry that ft is still giving you reasons to rant, though.


fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.

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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NT))) Why can't they just leave us alone when they made it so obvious and hurtful at one point or another that they didn't want anything to do with us? Now that they want to have us back in their lives, we are supposed to be all "Really? You want to talk to me live? Oooohhhhh, can't wait. Goody, goody, goody!" *jumping up and down with joy*

Just. Freakin'. Un. Be. Liev. Able.

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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