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No! I don't want to 'talk'! (mega rant)

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 NoTriangles (original poster member #35985) posted at 2:01 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

So Ftard has been reaching out since the layoff announcement last week. Apparently, he sees this event as the latest acceptable segue.

(I'm dumping this here so I don't reply.)

It's the usual trying to reminisce and wanting to 'banter' and then, 4 times now, "I would like to talk live".

Sure, I still have a million questions regarding a life I cant make sense of. But will I ever get honest answers from him? Absolutely not!!!

I know how this story ends. He wants to reminisce and 'connect' and then he'll say something heart-crushing like "I knew what I was doing when I left you" and then in the next breath he'll say "I was retarded" (my apologies to any truly handicapped people of this world). Bottom line is I will only get more pain and he skips off back to FucktardLand.

So, tell me, Fuckface, do you think that if I respond to your jokes and your 'I was just trying to be cute' bullshit, that it will somehow absolve you of all the heinous things you did to me?? Do you think that would somehow mean we are cool? That I have forgiven you? That what you did to me was okay? Ahem. Not. Even. Close!!

Healthy people don't do such things to people they supposedly love. If they do, they are either a narcissist/sociopath or a man-child. Neither of which I want in my life. What you did will NEVER be forgotten and it will never be forgiven in the absence of true remorse. (And we all know that a pig will fly out of my butt before THAT happens, you cowardly, lying traitor.)

YOU. CHOSE.

LIVE WITH IT!!

Peace out Assmunch,

NT

[This message edited by NoTriangles at 8:04 PM, June 24th (Monday)]

Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.

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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 3:29 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Great rant NT

I hope that he will go away quietly.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:11 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

((((NT))))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 4:16 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

(((NT)))

Good Rant!

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 6:10 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

O.M.G. I cannot believe that FT is STILL reaching out to you after all of this time.

How annoying.....

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 6:16 AM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

(((NT)))

great rant!

on a completely separate note, YOU have a quote in the quote thread down in F&G... Getting in the quote thread always gives me warm fuzzies.

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XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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libertyrocks ( member #38924) posted at 6:32 PM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

Nice!

Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:53 PM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

I want you to know that your rants help me. I read 'em and substitute the stuff that's pissing me off and I feel better.

I'm very sorry that ft is still giving you reasons to rant, though.

(((NT)))

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 7:08 PM on Tuesday, June 25th, 2013

(((NT))) Why can't they just leave us alone when they made it so obvious and hurtful at one point or another that they didn't want anything to do with us? Now that they want to have us back in their lives, we are supposed to be all "Really? You want to talk to me live? Oooohhhhh, can't wait. Goody, goody, goody!" *jumping up and down with joy*

Just. Freakin'. Un. Be. Liev. Able.

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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