Before meeting with my attorney, I considered moving out for my own sanity, but knew if I did, all it would do was give her unfiltered access to the OM because I wasn't around.
My attorney advised against leaving, unless domestic violence issues could come into play. That will not on my end.
Being a flight attendant, my WW has a very irregular work schedule. First, she does not have a set schedule. She is on reserve, which means when they need her, they call, she has to go. Typically she gets about 24hrs, notice before she gets called out. However they can call, and she has to be there within 90minutes. Here's an example of her work schedule:
Last week, she was gone for three days, came home for one, then gone again for 4 days.
She came home late last night, then had to go out this evening for a 2 day trip. She will be home tomorrow evening, has Thursday off, then leaves Friday for another 4 day trip.
When I told my Lawyer this he just smiled. He said if he was her attorney, he would advise she quit that job. I know she will not. The custody of our son is not my greatest concern right now. I will not deny his mother access to him, and she and I agreed, (for what it's worth), that we would share joint custody.
My main concern is staying in my home. She has immediate family near where we live. My family lives over two hours away. She can go and move in with her brother or mother right now. I really have no place to go. Even if I paid her the formula based child support, she could not afford to remain in the home. With some modifications, I could.
But she's very stubborn. She's already stated she's not leaving and expects me to leave. I'm not, so we're at a stalemate for now and I don't see an end in sight.
Any advice guys and galls?
[This message edited by jimbo25319 at 10:38 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)]