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Topic: Lobster. That's what I'm thinking.

lynnm1947
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Posted: 7:55 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

As a Newfoundlander by birth, lobster is like Mother's milk to me. I haven't had the "real" stuff since last year. I WANT LOBSTER! And I want it NOW! But I think I will need to wait till the weekend to visit my dealer (ha!) and get about 10 live ones. Mmmmm....I'm salivating thinking of it, with hot garlic lemon butter and warm steamed asparagus.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

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Sad in AZ
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Posted: 8:59 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

Growing up on Long Island, I actually overdosed on lobster. One summer (because we had a friend working on a lobster boat)we had it every day. It got to the point I'd walk in the door, open the fridge and whine, "Lobster again?"

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25300 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona

nowiknow23
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Posted: 9:05 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

Growing up landlocked in the Midwest, I can assure you this was never an issue, although we did complain about having steak and corn on the cob too often in the summer.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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jrc1963
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Posted: 9:10 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

DS and DS's father just came home from Maine... where they ordered and had FedEx'd home 18 lobsters...

We get six of them - tomorrow.

Yes, they're not live, but it's better than no lobster at all.

Lobster from Florida is way different than Lobster from Maine.

I don't even think I'll make anything to go with the Lobster.

NIK - I grew up land locked in Michigan... lots of steak and corn on the cob there too.

Me: BSO - 49
Him: FWSO - 72
DS - 16
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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h0peless
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Posted: 9:14 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

I'm from Arizona. The best I can hope for is a small, half starved crayfish.

Posts: 2922 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona

jrc1963
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Posted: 9:50 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

Me: BSO - 49
Him: FWSO - 72
DS - 16
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 25974 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida

Sad in AZ
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Posted: 10:27 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

Come on, h0peless; if you're willing to pay, you can get lobster in AZ. It was DS's birthday dinner every year when we lived there

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25300 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona

FaithFool
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Posted: 10:35 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

*drool*

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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movingforward777
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Posted: 11:10 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

There are benefits to living on either coast...when I lived on the East Coast of Canada I enjoyed fresh scallops (right off the boats), and lobster (even in the Chinese food, huge hunks of fresh lobster), and fresh fish....
When I lived on the West Coast of Canada I enjoyed fresh Pacific Salmon, crab and fresh fish......
SO and I went out for supper the other night and I had a feed of crab's legs, plunged into hot, garlic/lemon butter....it was so good!!!
Nothing compares to enjoying the fresh seafood that I am lucky to have available to me living where I do now....whatever the price....

You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

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h0peless
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Posted: 11:25 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013

Come on, h0peless; if you're willing to pay, you can get lobster in AZ. It was DS's birthday dinner every year when we lived there

Yeah but I'm talking fresh. Like the kind I get when I visit my sister in Boston. Crayfish is too risky anyways. I tried to catch one once and it pinched my finger.

Posts: 2922 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona

lynnm1947
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Posted: 8:14 AM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

I am planning my lobster party today. Maybe I'll do a traditional Newfie potato salad to go with it as well. Oh, the possibilities! There will be enough lobster for leftovers the next day. Yum, yum, yum.

Sad, my ex-husband once ate so much lobster, he got completely turned against it! It was years before he could look a lobster in the eye again.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

Posts: 8747 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada

TrulyReconciled
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Posted: 9:58 AM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

I definitely vote Lobster!!

"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 22740 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)

lynnm1947
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Posted: 10:58 AM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

I'm thinking Saturday night if you want to show up!

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

Posts: 8747 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada

suckstobeme
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Posted: 12:28 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

So while we're on the subject, I want to try to have a lobster bake on my deck this summer. Maybe about fifteen people. What do I serve and how do I prepare the lobster? Do I have other seafood dishes as well? Help. I don't want to look like a jackass.

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D - 2011
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Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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lynnm1947
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Posted: 1:02 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

I've never baked lobsters. We have lobster boils. Take a huge pot and fill it with highly salted (preferably sea) water. (My pot holds 3-4 lobsters, depending on size. Bring to a rollicking boil. Hold lobster firmly between the tail and the back. slightly squeezing the tail so it can't flap. Plunge lobster head down into the boiling water and hold until any movement stops. Drop lobster in the water. Repeat with more lobsters. Bring water back to the boil and cook 12-15 minutes for 1 lb lobster, 15-20 minutes for a 1 1/2 pound lobster, 20-25 minutes for a 2-3 pound lobster. Perfect lobster every time and no "screaming".
Count on one lobster per person. You can skimp and do 1/2 per person, but if they are lobby lovers, they'll each need their own. Serve with loads of melted butter, seasoned with garlic and lemon.

[This message edited by lynnm1947 at 1:02 PM, June 26th (Wednesday)]

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

Posts: 8747 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada

TrulyReconciled
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Posted: 1:09 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

Steaming is the best!!

"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 22740 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)

toomanyregrets
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Posted: 1:39 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

One never gets enough lobster.
I just wish I could afford even a small 1-1/4 pounder but at $9 a pound, it's outa my reach.

BH - 66 - Retired
fWW - 62

"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife
"Regret is when you realize you broke your own heart.
Remorse is when you realize you broke someone else's." - Bla

Posts: 745 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Upstate NY

lynnm1947
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Posted: 2:01 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

suckstobebe, if you have enough lobster, you need nothing else except a side dish or two and the butter!

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

Posts: 8747 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada

TrulyReconciled
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Posted: 2:13 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

... and a glass of Chassagne Montrachet

"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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yewtree
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Posted: 2:24 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013

MMMM Lobster.
When my daughter was about 3, I parked her in the grocery cart near the lobster tank and turned to grab something.

When I turned around she was crying and saying, "Mommy I can't like this bug!"

Poor little bunny.

Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.

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