I find myself "appreciating" more, too. For me I think it's even of a sign of detachment. Before I wouldn't even think of looking at another man...and not in some righteous way. But because I really had no interest and because I thought Jerkface was all I needed and I was happy. Though I feel like I'm at a weird age and point in my life. If I appreciate a younger guy I feel like a dirty old lady and if I see a good looking older man I get that scene from Big Daddy in my head...ya know..."old balls."
ETA: If you are close to the city/NJ, go down to F&G and take a look at the NJ g2g in August. If you can come just post for me to put you on the PM list.
[This message edited by TattoodChinaDoll at 8:50 AM, June 26th (Wednesday)]
WH: 34 TimeToManUp
Married: 12 years, together 17 years
3 daughters: 10, 6, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.