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Topic: Safe!

Flatlined123
♀ 35862
Member # 35862

Posted: 5:19 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

I just realized yesterday that I finally feel safe with H, or as safe as I'm ever going to feel.

For the longest time I didn't feel like I could trust him to have my best interest in mind. It makes me sad that even this trust isn't complete like it was before. I will always be guarded, I think.

Shared this with H. Told him thank you for doing the work to help me feel safe again.

Me: BS H: WS
4 kids
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 946 | Registered: Jun 2012

AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622

Posted: 7:18 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2859 | Registered: Aug 2012

2married2quit
♂ 36555
Member # 36555

Posted: 7:45 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

That's good to hear. It's inspirational.

BS - Me 47 WS - Her 45 (Childhood sexual abuse survivor)
DDAY -#1- June 2012/ #2 -June 2015 / #3-August 2015
Married 25yrs. 2kids
Status: divorced.

Posts: 1725 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA

crazyblindsided
♀ 35215
Member # 35215

Posted: 3:15 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

I love posts like these, that give me hope.

I'm glad you feel safe with your H again Flatlined123

BS/FWS (me):43 Madhatter
WS/BS:46 Serial Cheater
Together 20 years, Married 15
DD(13) DS(10)
DDay(s) Too many to count
False R 7/11/14 Same OW2
"Never seek validation from those who are unworthy."

Posts: 3962 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California

Irishar
♀ 35760
Member # 35760

Posted: 3:21 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

I am happy for the both of you!

Be true to yourself

Posts: 67 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Saskatchewan

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