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User Topic: Chapter closed.
trebleclef
♀ 33488
Member # 33488
Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just got word that a year after filing and many derailments in the process, the divorce has been granted. Official papers to come after the 30 day waiting period.

Not sure how to feel. Sad? A bit. So sad that it's really over and this is where we are after 43 years, but ecstatic that since it IS we are, it's
finally done.


True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Alberta
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I understand the emotional mixture. It is where you are and in 30 days you can set your own course to whatever destination that you seek.

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tabitha95
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Member # 22033
Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry. This certainly wasn't what I thought would happen to my marriage either. It was good having the D completed for me since I don't like things in limbo, but it didn't help me emotionally when it was finalized. The legal end of it doesn't match the healing within ourselves.


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3266 | Registered: Dec 2008
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Red  Posted: 12:27 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please the existing thread. See link below.

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=500295&HL=33488


Posts: 49215 | Registered: Mar 2011
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