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trebleclef posted 6/27/2013 11:41 AM

  Posted: 11:31 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013
Just got word that a year after filing and many derailments in the process, the divorce has been granted. Official papers to come after the 30 day waiting period.
Not sure how to feel. Sad? A bit. So sad that it's really over and this is where we are after 43 years, but ecstatic that since it IS we are, it's finally done.

Thankyou to all the SI peeps that have kept me sane in the last two years.

Now- property settlement with a master procrastinator...... Chapter 2.

Nature_Girl posted 6/27/2013 11:42 AM

((((HUGS))))

trebleclef posted 6/27/2013 13:53 PM

Sorry admin! I meant to post this in D/S but accidentally hit NB by mistake - must have been a subconscious slip lol.

fallingquickly posted 6/27/2013 14:23 PM

I understand the ambivalence. Endings are sad.

(((trebleclef)))

tesla posted 6/27/2013 15:07 PM

I'm glad for you. It's another bit of the shit cesspool traversed.

fraeuken posted 6/27/2013 15:12 PM

Off to the next chapter! A little sadness is healthy but there are so many opportunities in front of you.

And as for the settlement with a master procrastinator, it is not fun but you get to get in the driver seat and if you get lucky, you get to call the shots. Good luck!

trebleclef posted 6/27/2013 22:24 PM

Oops double post.

[This message edited by trebleclef at 10:24 PM, June 27th (Thursday)]

peridot posted 6/27/2013 23:30 PM

Just remember you have this part behind you and you have the rest of your life to look forward to and it gets to be anything you want.