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trebleclef
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Posted: 11:41 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

Posted: 11:31 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013
Just got word that a year after filing and many derailments in the process, the divorce has been granted. Official papers to come after the 30 day waiting period.
Not sure how to feel. Sad? A bit. So sad that it's really over and this is where we are after 43 years, but ecstatic that since it IS we are, it's finally done.

Thankyou to all the SI peeps that have kept me sane in the last two years.

Now- property settlement with a master procrastinator...... Chapter 2.

True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Alberta

Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
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Posted: 11:42 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

((((HUGS))))

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA

trebleclef
♀ 33488
Member # 33488

Posted: 1:53 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

Sorry admin! I meant to post this in D/S but accidentally hit NB by mistake - must have been a subconscious slip lol.

True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Alberta

fallingquickly
♀ 36599
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Posted: 2:23 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

I understand the ambivalence. Endings are sad.

(((trebleclef)))

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.

Posts: 468 | Registered: Aug 2012

tesla
♀ 34697
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Posted: 3:07 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

I'm glad for you. It's another bit of the shit cesspool traversed.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012

fraeuken
♀ 30742
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Posted: 3:12 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

Off to the next chapter! A little sadness is healthy but there are so many opportunities in front of you.

And as for the settlement with a master procrastinator, it is not fun but you get to get in the driver seat and if you get lucky, you get to call the shots. Good luck!

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1322 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California

trebleclef
♀ 33488
Member # 33488

Posted: 10:24 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

Oops double post.

[This message edited by trebleclef at 10:24 PM, June 27th (Thursday)]

True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Alberta

peridot
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Posted: 11:30 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

Just remember you have this part behind you and you have the rest of your life to look forward to and it gets to be anything you want.

I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.

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