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Topic: Running date?

She11ybeanz
♀ 27457
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Posted: 12:58 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

Okay.... so this guy I know from my hash running group sent me a message on Facebook today asking if I wanted to go for a run with him on Saturday....and I said....sure! I figure...why the hell not! Now....granted... its different with him because I know him...and he has met my daughter at hash runs because I've brought her to see my group at the on-afters after the run before. He and I chatted some the other night during a weekday hash run and he seems so sweet. Now....granted...he doesn't have a degree. He is a certified massage therapist. And, I think he works another job as well. He is a single dad of a 9 year old. He doesn't drink because he is a recovering alcoholic...(but he hasn't had a drink in 2 years, so I commend him on that!) He's kinda cute too!

It can't hurt to go for a run right??

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

Posts: 2741 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia

cayc
♀ 21964
Member # 21964

Posted: 1:28 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

Of course not, go!

He's sounds like he might be a good dating candidate.

"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

Posts: 3264 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico

She11ybeanz
♀ 27457
Member # 27457

Posted: 1:34 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

I like that he is a "nice guy" and seems sweet! I need sweet right now. So, I'm gonna go! Besides, if nothing else, I can at least make a new running friend!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

Posts: 2741 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia

Later
♂ 39375
Member # 39375

Posted: 1:36 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

Sounds great. I love the idea of focusing on common, especially active, interests.

Much better, IMO, than the ritual of eating as a "date."

Posts: 385 | Registered: May 2013

OnceInALifetime
♂ 26023
Member # 26023

Posted: 5:23 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

Let him catch you if he can!

BH, now divorced

Posts: 3012 | Registered: Oct 2009

better4me
♀ 30341
Member # 30341

Posted: 7:03 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013

and you've already screened him. Yea!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3269 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa

Bluebird26
♀ 36445
Member # 36445

Posted: 1:27 AM, June 28th (Friday), 2013

Go for it

Me: BW

Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.

Life's good.

Posts: 1451 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia

Undefinabl3
♀ 36883
Member # 36883

Posted: 2:25 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013

I'm sorry.....this:

so this guy I know from my hash running group

and then this:

He doesn't drink because he is a recovering alcoholic

So, basically, all he does is run and is the DD for all the runners with a drinking problem?

Besides that...Foaming at the Mouth says

ON ON!!

Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.

Posts: 1863 | Registered: Sep 2012

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