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Shockleader posted 6/27/2013 16:16 PM

She contacted me yesterday, wants to get together Saturday after yoga, and asked if I had any ideas (basically what to do). I told her:

"I'd like to spend time somewhere where we can have a lot of time to talk, and relax with each other."

So now what? I suggested a nice winery? God I hate looking like an indecisive fool; I just recently moved back to the area, and am so outa touch with what to see and do, especially with a date after what I said. Maybe a pic-nic, weather permitting? Help.

Thanks again everyone for helping out a fella who hasn't dated since the 80's

Amazonia posted 6/27/2013 17:10 PM

Has she been in the area longer?

I would suggest asking her if she has a favorite museum/garden/zoo/winery she can introduce you to - somewhere you can walk and talk and find a seat to linger if you want.

Amazonia posted 6/27/2013 17:11 PM

That or take her mini golfing. Putt putt makes a great get-to-know-you date.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 5:11 PM, June 27th (Thursday)]