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hardlessons (original poster member #35025) posted at 4:45 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2013
I wanted to take a moment and thank all of you who have participated in the surgery to remove my head from ass this past year or so. You should know who you are and I thank you. Thank you to those who love mustard on their French fried taters, you also remind me of where I have been and where I don’t want to go back to. Thank you for helping me create a marriage I never dreamed of and being someone I can be ok with, honestly did not like who I was and had no idea how to stop the stupidity. I probably could have posted this in Recon, but Wayward is my home. Came to realize that not too long ago and I am cool with that, cool with the fact that this is probably the most real place in the world other than with my wife and boys. Even if I hadn’t had an A this is where I belonged because my thought processes and stinkin thinkin made me a dry adulterer regardless.
Recently someone asked “What’s wrong with that guy?” And actually I don’t think for the past 2-3 months I have been in a better place than where I am at now in my entire life. We have a ton of life changes coming as the company I work for is sucking bad(management sucks) so I started looking and was able to find another job, but it will take us out of the Phoenix area, first time in my life living outside of the valley plus I may need to stay there while TG stays here for a month, so new job, new home, boys have recently left, back in school getting my MBA. Crazy! So again, before I get caught in the craziness I wanted to say thanks to SI and those who participate for giving us the opportunity to go through ALL these changes together as a family.
Me WH
Wife Tired Girl
3 adult sons
"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."
JustDesserts ( member #39665) posted at 5:05 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2013
I wanted to take a moment and thank all of you who have participated in the surgery to remove my head from ass this past year or so.
Please let me know your doctor's names, phone numbers, and what insurance they accept. It's become painfully clear I need a cranioanalectomy, and fast. 
2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 51. Her: BW, 50. Married 20 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.
uncertainone ( member #28108) posted at 5:28 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2013
Awesome post. This site is a lifesaver. You and TG have been such a great resource for so many, along with many other awesome folks.
Me: 37
'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth
20WrongsVs1 ( member #39000) posted at 7:37 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2013
fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
Former motto: "Fake it till ya make it." Now: "You can't win if you don't play."
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:31 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2013
I second the LIKE button!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 8:42 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2013
HLessons - You've come a long way in a little over a year. I really appreciate your candidness and straightforwardness on all of your posts, even at the risk of pissing someone off. I think your perspective on things is refreshing and challenging. You've done good, and you've personally helped me out on more than one occasion. So, I guess I'm saying "Gracias" right back at ya!
Keep up the good work! 
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 8:54 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2013
Great post, HL.
Add me to the list of those you and TG have given much needed help. So big thank yous to you both.
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
hardlessons (original poster member #35025) posted at 9:40 PM on Friday, June 28th, 2013
even at the risk of pissing someone off.
LOL, thanks. While that typically isn't my intent, I do blow that up sometimes.
Thank you for all your help Losfer as a fellow Maiden fan I might have picked Wrathchild as a name if the one I have wasn't so damn appropriate!!
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Me WH
Wife Tired Girl
3 adult sons
"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."
KBeguile ( member #38348) posted at 3:09 AM on Saturday, June 29th, 2013
You have been one of the best resources SI has had to offer, sir. Thank YOU for what YOU have done.
Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 7yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2016/02/19
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