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User Topic: If you haven't peeked at "Betrayed Men" yet...
loveisareddress
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

in the ICR thread, you should.

It's a fast moving thread and these guys really cut through the crap.


Scorched earth-Like Peter the Great, he burns up his own territory in order to gain the upper hand while his own people suffer.

I don't need you to be happy. I just need you to leave me alone when I am.


Posts: 445 | Registered: Aug 2012
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know. I SO WISH I could ask a question in there.


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5539 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 3:19 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

its like they have there own little club lol


me 33
him 32
6 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 225 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
wert
♂ 34478
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

brokensunflower

We do. WW's are their own little brand of F-d up.

take care...



Posts: 1450 | Registered: Jan 2012
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's my favorite thread to creep on. I just outed myself, but it's full of all kinds of awesome.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6937 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
Mikey56
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do I detect Betrayed Menis envy?

Posts: 115 | Registered: Jan 2013
h0peless
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Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, women are looking at our thread? I'd better get this mustard stain out of my shirt!

Posts: 1811 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do I detect Betrayed Menis envy?

Yes, I love you men. There is a lot of honesty and get your head outta your ass kind of love...

You guys rock!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaďs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3858 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Betrayed Menis envy

/dead


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

Posts: 6937 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
5454real
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Outed???

Sigh!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 21(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3181 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Apparently not, since I posted a YouTube like I was Jacques Cartier that was soooo 3 Taylor Swift breakup songs ago.


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


Posts: 6795 | Registered: Mar 2010
20WrongsVs1
♀ 39000
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Cool  Posted: 6:01 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WW's are their own little brand of F-d up.

Yes, but you picked us.

Sincerely, though, y'all have impacted my recovery more than anything else on SI. This changed my life:

atsenaotie sums up an all-too-common dynamic on the menz thread -

I was not that unhappy in the M.
To FWW’s thinking that was proof that she was being a good W.
OTOH, she was miserable, and that was proof that I was being a bad H and did not love her.

Holy fucking lightbulb.


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
GraceisGood
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, I make a point to go once a week and catch up, super good stuff, loved the video game stuff too
Grace


We have a tendency to think the love offered us is a reflection of our worth and value.But in actuality,it's a reflection of the person that is giving it.We love out of who WE are-not because of who the receiver is.At least in terms of real love.TSMF

Posts: 3474 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: how far the east is from the west
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

it's full of all kinds of awesome.

Yes, it is. The menz post some pretty insightful stuff on that thread. Many times I've wanted to applaud in there, but, alas, I am not a menz...

[This message edited by woundedby2 at 6:40 PM, June 28th (Friday)]


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7851 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Betrayed Men forum has kept my hope alive that there are decent men out there, and that maybe even some day I might make friends with one. I seldom lurk there because I want to give the guys their privacy, but on occasion when I need uplifting, I peek.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10045 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the Betrayed Men thread...it's loaded with humor and excellent advice. Great men on there!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

*raising my hand* I visit the BH's ICR thread often. Learned so very much. Yes, the menz there are so amazing and the support that only menz can give to menz is so heartfelt there. I have encouraged many a BH to visit that thread to get some very spot on advice from those who have BTDT.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I do check them out periodically as well.

They have restored my faith in men.


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5484 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
HopeFloats2272
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Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had never "peeked" until your title "piqued" my interest : )
That really made for some good reading. It's nice to see the camaraderie and the support that only another BH can offer.
I kinda felt like a peeping-Tom-girl but what else is a girl gonna do on a Friday night when the kids are at WS' place?

p.s. where can I buy the t-shirt that says: "WW...Their Own Little Brand of F-d Up!"?? I know someone (ok, a few people) that could sport one of those : )


BS- 40, WH 38
Married 13yrs, 2 Sweet Boys-5 & 9
DD#1: 1/10/12- 6mo EA
DD#2: 8/23/12-revealed 1PA, 2ONS in 2010 and 1EA/PA in 2004
DD#3: 9/10/12- ONS w/friend in 2010
Lots of other crap and TT - basically I was married to a guy that forgot he was

Posts: 38 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Maryland
aesir
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Default  Posted: 11:34 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So which one of you wandered off with the Budweiser clock? It went missing between 10 and 11?


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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