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User Topic: Give me some ideas please
♀ 30853
Member # 30853
Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just have a feeling that exWH is not going to be able to resist the full court press that the slunt and her kids are putting on to essentially beg for a proposal. I don't know when it would be coming, but want to be prepared.

I've been thinking of two responses in the event that I get the text.

One part of me just wants to say "I hope you both get exactly what you deserve from that marriage."

Another part of me wants to say nothing moe than "hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha"

What say my SI friends? Any preference? Any other suggestions?

BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
♀ 34697
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I'm partial to, "I wish you both all the happiness you deserve."

But then again, crickets seems best.

Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink

Posts: 3720 | Registered: May 2004 | From: Midwest
♀ 38377
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Crickets, but maybe something like, "Let me know when you need a divorce lawyer as I happen to know a good one."

xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 9 and 13

Posts: 3120 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
♀ 33698
Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely 100% crickets. That's what everyone here advised me to do when XWH told me about his impending nuptials. I'm so glad that I did because I think it's set the tone for the future. I don't think it's my imagination, but XWH does everything that he can to avoid me lately, and he's made it clear that he wants to keep me and Owife apart. That suits me just fine. Anything you say will be twisted and used against you. If you're completely silent on the subject, you don't give him any ammunition, and you continue to deal with him in as classy a way as possible.

Believe me, I wanted to write, "Have you lost your mind completely?" That would have just amped up the drama and helped XWH to paint me as the horrid wife he had to have an A to escape from.

Besides... beg for a proposal? Does it get any more pathetic than that?

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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♀ 35229
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another vote for crickets.

I predict several engagements and marriages for the sad clown. I predict crickets from me each and every time. I know just what kind of husband he is - they don't, oh but they will.

Changing the players does not change the game.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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