Absolutely 100% crickets. That's what everyone here advised me to do when XWH told me about his impending nuptials. I'm so glad that I did because I think it's set the tone for the future. I don't think it's my imagination, but XWH does everything that he can to avoid me lately, and he's made it clear that he wants to keep me and Owife apart. That suits me just fine. Anything you say will be twisted and used against you. If you're completely silent on the subject, you don't give him any ammunition, and you continue to deal with him in as classy a way as possible.
Believe me, I wanted to write, "Have you lost your mind completely?" That would have just amped up the drama and helped XWH to paint me as the horrid wife he had to have an A to escape from.
Besides... beg for a proposal? Does it get any more pathetic than that?