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Housefulloflove posted 6/28/2013 19:55 PM

Today I decided to bite the bullet and have a talk with the kids about the divorce.

As expected my girls took it well. My son did not. Seeing his tears means I am not either. :(

It's so surreal that I even had to have that conversation. If someone would have told me a year ago exactly where I would be right now and why, I would not have believed them.

It's moments like this that make me regret the day I ever met the POS. I chose SO badly when I chose him to be my husband and father of my children and now my children have to have moments like this because I failed at recognizing him for the disordered and unfaithful POS that he is.

Nature_Girl posted 6/28/2013 19:56 PM

(((((HUGS)))))

I know it hurts. It hurts.

nowiknow23 posted 6/28/2013 19:57 PM

((((housefulloflove)))) What you're feeling is completely normal. Take it easy on yourself, honey.

jo2love posted 6/28/2013 19:57 PM

(((House)))

Kajem posted 6/28/2013 20:42 PM

(((((house))))

fallingquickly posted 6/28/2013 21:15 PM

(((Housefulloflove)))

SBB posted 6/28/2013 21:36 PM

Please know you're not alone.

I can handle what he did/does to me - I chose him. I'm still dripping with regret for choosing him for them.

((Housefulloflove)) It won't always hurt this bad. I promise.

abigailadams posted 6/28/2013 23:25 PM

The worst day is when you tell your children. Nothing hurts like seeing their pain. It will get better. And they will recover because you are there for them

Coraline posted 6/29/2013 01:03 AM

(((Housefulloflove)))

numbandnauseous posted 6/29/2013 01:37 AM

house - I am so sorry. We are having the talk soon too and I am dreading it.

You and your children wil get through this - one step at a time, one tear at a time, one hug at a time. As you user name says, you have a house full of love and nothing can destroy that!

((((((((housefulloflove and children))))))

[This message edited by numbandnauseous at 1:38 AM, June 29th (Saturday)]