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User Topic: words of encouragement/inspirational
letitout
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH is overseas and I would like to express words of encouragement about our R in email but don't know what to say. I often bumble through conversations face to face and it almost always ends up about his cheating and that doesn't help matters. This way I can think about it and he can think about it before responding and be positive. Any suggestions?


BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.

Posts: 283 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Weekends can be slow. I don't have any advice for you, but I hear you.

One thing, though, is he saying anything to you to confirm his commitment to you and to show he's not cheating while he's away?


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10758 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
letitout
♀ 38288
Member # 38288
Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi sisoon. He is calling everyday (16hr time difference can be hard though0, and we have emailed. But it is all superficial about work and kids. He did say I love you in his email which he hasn't said or done in a long time. I emailed back if that seemed weird to him to write that, but his next email didn't respond to it.

IDN, I just want to write something more meaningful without putting more stress on the situation. A quote perhaps.

IDN, I guess I just want something more meaningful to be said without putting stress on him while he is away. A quote or


BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.

Posts: 283 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
letitout
♀ 38288
Member # 38288
Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know why my post doubled.


BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.

Posts: 283 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, June 30th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why not talk to your H about wanting not to be superficial, despite the difficulties? That's honest and loving, a pretty powerful combination.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10758 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Topic Posts: 5

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