That wasn't remorse..it was regret..and he was probably crying for himself because his "fun" was over.
Tell him it takes 3-5 years to heal from this shit. 2 weeks? Tell him to man the fuck up.
He needs to find another job..NC is essential to your healing and R.
Is he doing *anything* to show you he wants to R?
Is he transparent? Do you have full access to all of his accounts and his cell?
Will he answer your questions without blaming and anger?
Has he been tested for STD's?
Maybe you could leave and visit your family just to get a break? Only don't tell him that. As long as he knows you're stuck,nothing will change.
ETA: I just read your profile. He thinks she is "sweet,caring,and unselfish??" She is a fucking nasty whore who is fucking a married man..a newly married man with a baby. Selfish is the very least of what she is.
[This message edited by confused615 at 10:15 AM, June 29th (Saturday)]
M: June 2001
Status: Reconciled. Love my "new" husband!
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.