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User Topic: Trying to take my mind off it
BillyinArkansas
♂ 39666
Member # 39666
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm getting ready to try and go to a wedding of some of our friends. I know it will be tough. Most of my fiends, our friends, will be there, and know about what has happened. I'm going to try to hold it together.

Posts: 34 | Registered: Jun 2013
residencywife93
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Member # 39695
Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hi there!

I'm new here... So I don't have the best advice but just wanted to send you support.

I honestly don't think I'd be in any shape to go to a wedding, so if you don't feel good, excuse yourself and go home. It will be okay.

Sending you strength!


Me: BS 27
Him: WH 27
Married 9/3/11
Together since 10/2006
DDay 5/28/13
Filed 7/22/13

Lacing up my nikes and running west!


Posts: 36 | Registered: Jun 2013
circleoflife
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think if they know they'll be supportive and make sure you have a good/safe time. It will be tough but try and enjoy yourself and relax. I'm new here as well, but hugs your way...


Me BW (36)
WH (39)
together 16 years
2 kids: 6 DD & 10 month DS
Dday:4/18/13
TT: 4/26/13
TT: 5/6/13
more TT: 6/13/13
more TT: 7/9/13

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BillyinArkansas
♂ 39666
Member # 39666
Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had to walk off a couple of times and cry. The wedding vows were hard to hear, but I was among friends and I guess people are expected to cry at weddings. The open bar afterwards was a relief, and although I guess I shocked some people I made it home alive.

Posts: 34 | Registered: Jun 2013
Bikingguy
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Member # 38103
Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not sure how far you are from D day but at about 4 months I had to attend a wedding. It was terrible. I would have walked out if we were not in the first few rows. I am glad you had some friends for support.


Me: BH, 44
Her: WW, 43
D day. January 12, 2013

Posts: 685 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Socal
BillyinArkansas
♂ 39666
Member # 39666
Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Less than a week. It was rough. I have been able to IM with my daughter, though. She seems open to the idea of a visit back home but it looks like she has been convinced to live there with her mom, so it might come to a fight.

Posts: 34 | Registered: Jun 2013
HeartInADustpan
♀ 38341
Member # 38341
Default  Posted: 11:56 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Billy,

I'm so sorry you have to go. I've had to skip 2 (yes 2!) weddings since dday 7 months ago. Just can't take the pain.

I wish you the best of luck and strength.

Hang in there.


Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
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