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User Topic: 3 years out and doing great
♀ 29184
Member # 29184
Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just want to post some encouragement. We are 3 years from d-day and feel like a routine has formed. Triggers still happen but are less frequent. I still think of her quite a bit but it doesn't bother me as much. FWH is truly a changed man. We have a fantastic marriage that I never thought we would ever have in a million years. We do things together. He sends me love song lyrics every morning. We joke around and laugh with each other all the time. We are just happier.

So, there is hope just hang in there. This doesn't mean that I won't be on here having an issue later but for now things are great!

Me:BS married 29 yrs.
5 kids

Time really does heal.
EA D-Day May 2008
PA D-Day May 7,2010 (same A)

Posts: 885 | Registered: Jul 2010
♀ 33956
Member # 33956
Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you for sharing. it does give me hope.

BS (41):(Former Doormat)
WS (39):(Busted Cheater)
Married: 10 years, 3 kids under 5
DD1: 10/11 PA/EA with pilates instructor/former stripper.
DD2: 10/12 False r, cheating with other women, online dating,Substance abuse issues.
R:Last chance

Posts: 1065 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Alabama
♂ 15902
Member # 15902
Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 33 years, Together 40 years - Reconciled

Posts: 6295 | Registered: Aug 2007
♀ 37043
Member # 37043
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me, BS, 30s
Him, WS, 30s, Steppenwolf
Kids: Yep
D-Day 1: September 2011, 6 week EA
D-Day 2: January 2013, discovered EA was a PA; there was another PA in 2010. All TT.
Goal = serenity.

Posts: 667 | Registered: Oct 2012
Topic Posts: 4

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