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ladya (original poster member #29184) posted at 8:05 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2013
Just want to post some encouragement. We are 3 years from d-day and feel like a routine has formed. Triggers still happen but are less frequent. I still think of her quite a bit but it doesn't bother me as much. FWH is truly a changed man. We have a fantastic marriage that I never thought we would ever have in a million years. We do things together. He sends me love song lyrics every morning. We joke around and laugh with each other all the time. We are just happier.
So, there is hope just hang in there. This doesn't mean that I won't be on here having an issue later but for now things are great!
Me:BS married 29 yrs.
5 kids
Time really does heal.
EA D-Day May 2008
PA D-Day May 7,2010 (same A)
sri624 ( member #33956) posted at 8:56 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2013
thank you for sharing. it does give me hope.
BS (41):(Former Doormat)
WS (39):(Busted Cheater)
Married: 10 years, 3 kids under 5
DD1: 10/11 PA/EA with pilates instructor/former stripper.
DD2: 10/12 False r, cheating with other women, online dating,Substance abuse issues.
R:Last chance
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 9:01 PM on Saturday, June 29th, 2013
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
RockyMtn ( member #37043) posted at 2:54 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013
Me, BS, 30s
Him, WS, 30s, Steppenwolf
Kids: Yep
D-Day 1: September 2011, 6 week EA
D-Day 2: January 2013, discovered EA was a PA; there was another PA in 2010. All TT.
Goal = serenity.
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