Me:BS married 29 yrs.
Just want to post some encouragement. We are 3 years from d-day and feel like a routine has formed. Triggers still happen but are less frequent. I still think of her quite a bit but it doesn't bother me as much. FWH is truly a changed man. We have a fantastic marriage that I never thought we would ever have in a million years. We do things together. He sends me love song lyrics every morning. We joke around and laugh with each other all the time. We are just happier.
So, there is hope just hang in there. This doesn't mean that I won't be on here having an issue later but for now things are great!
Time really does heal.
EA D-Day May 2008
PA D-Day May 7,2010 (same A)