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little turtle posted 6/29/2013 14:22 PM

Today marks 7 years from when XH started his A.

While my life is pretty awesome, I'm feeling kind of down today. I didn't even know that XH was cheating when it started. I was up north with my family getting ready to celebrate 4th of July. I found out the actual date later on. XH was with OW off and on for nearly 4 years.

I bought VIP tickets for an event tonight for SO and I. I don't feel like doing anything. I need to get out of this funk.

SO told me some semi-bad news when he got home from work a bit ago. Next month, while we're visiting his cousin (and his family) for a week, we won't be sleeping in the same bed, per his cousin's request. SO says it's just a week, but that's my time to spend alone with him. I'm already anxious about the trip. Staying with his family. I've met his cousin twice, but not his wife or kids. Part of me doesn't wanna go now. I don't know if I'm just being emotional or what.

nowiknow23 posted 6/29/2013 14:51 PM

((((little turtle))))

jo2love posted 6/29/2013 15:05 PM

(((little turtle)))

I'm sorry. I can understand feeling down. While it gets easier as time passes, there are still moments where this stuff smacks me in the face. Sending you hugs and strength.

Can you and SO stay in a hotel for part of the week?

[This message edited by SI Staff at 3:06 PM, June 29th (Saturday)]

torn2bits posted 6/29/2013 17:12 PM

So sorry you are feeling down. I would have to agree and ask if you can stay in a hotel?

Personally, when I am not with my kids, I don't want to be around other kid, let alone, a whole week.

little turtle posted 6/29/2013 21:39 PM

My kids are going to be there with us. I don't know if a hotel is an option or not. I could look into it.

Kajem posted 6/30/2013 10:47 AM

(((littleturtle))))