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User Topic: the past frustrates me
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today marks 7 years from when XH started his A.

While my life is pretty awesome, I'm feeling kind of down today. I didn't even know that XH was cheating when it started. I was up north with my family getting ready to celebrate 4th of July. I found out the actual date later on. XH was with OW off and on for nearly 4 years.

I bought VIP tickets for an event tonight for SO and I. I don't feel like doing anything. I need to get out of this funk.

SO told me some semi-bad news when he got home from work a bit ago. Next month, while we're visiting his cousin (and his family) for a week, we won't be sleeping in the same bed, per his cousin's request. SO says it's just a week, but that's my time to spend alone with him. I'm already anxious about the trip. Staying with his family. I've met his cousin twice, but not his wife or kids. Part of me doesn't wanna go now. I don't know if I'm just being emotional or what.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4224 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((little turtle))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26207 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((little turtle)))

I'm sorry. I can understand feeling down. While it gets easier as time passes, there are still moments where this stuff smacks me in the face. Sending you hugs and strength.

Can you and SO stay in a hotel for part of the week?

[This message edited by SI Staff at 3:06 PM, June 29th (Saturday)]


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torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry you are feeling down. I would have to agree and ask if you can stay in a hotel?

Personally, when I am not with my kids, I don't want to be around other kid, let alone, a whole week.


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
little turtle
♀ 15584
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My kids are going to be there with us. I don't know if a hotel is an option or not. I could look into it.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4224 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, June 30th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((littleturtle))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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