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3boys (original poster new member #38736) posted at 12:57 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013
Recently I had been having a problem accessing SI. I could log on, but when I went to the forums, I was automatically logged out and couldn't post or read anyone's profiles. I contacted Deeply Scared and we worked on the problem for a few days. Still nothing.
Now we have been R'ed for 3 1/2 yrs, supposedly. FWH knows about SI and that it's helped me get to where we are now. I don't go on SI every day. Usually a couple of times a week to catch up and that's it.
Well, in the process of trying to solve another issue with my laptop, I have discovered the problem with SI. Apparently, someone went into my internet options and put SI as a restricted website. Which meant I could read things on SI, but had no other access to it. I know FWH did it, but why? I thought we were done with this shit! I know there is nothing else going on. He has been 100% remorseful and totally changed from the man he became during the A. He is totally transparent and I know NC has been maintained. Besides, she lives 2000 miles from us and is supposedly R'ed with her BH. Not that I trust her at all, but I have verified that there has been NC.
So, WTF?
Anyone want to take a stab at this?
3boys
[This message edited by 3boys at 7:14 PM, June 29th (Saturday)]
BW-52FWH-59
M-32yrs
DS-28,DS-24,DS-18,2 GS-both 4yrs
MOW-holier-than-thou Christian whore
2 yr EA, 2-3 mon PA
Dday-10/10/2009
R
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 1:18 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013
I think its a red flag of some kind and I would ask him about it and see if he is honest
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:50 PM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013
It's also possible that you inadvertently hit some keys in a sequence that put the site on the restricted list.
It's impossible to tests every potential key sequence, and strange things can happen. I'm not saying this did happen in your sitch, but it certainly can.
Certainly you pretty much have to be pretty vigilant, but remember that this could have been an accident.
[This message edited by sisoon at 9:52 AM, June 30th (Sunday)]
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
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