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User Topic: Just putting this out there...?
♀ 38736
Member # 38736
What?  Posted: 6:57 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Recently I had been having a problem accessing SI. I could log on, but when I went to the forums, I was automatically logged out and couldn't post or read anyone's profiles. I contacted Deeply Scared and we worked on the problem for a few days. Still nothing.

Now we have been R'ed for 3 1/2 yrs, supposedly. FWH knows about SI and that it's helped me get to where we are now. I don't go on SI every day. Usually a couple of times a week to catch up and that's it.

Well, in the process of trying to solve another issue with my laptop, I have discovered the problem with SI. Apparently, someone went into my internet options and put SI as a restricted website. Which meant I could read things on SI, but had no other access to it. I know FWH did it, but why? I thought we were done with this shit! I know there is nothing else going on. He has been 100% remorseful and totally changed from the man he became during the A. He is totally transparent and I know NC has been maintained. Besides, she lives 2000 miles from us and is supposedly R'ed with her BH. Not that I trust her at all, but I have verified that there has been NC.

So, WTF?

Anyone want to take a stab at this?


[This message edited by 3boys at 7:14 PM, June 29th (Saturday)]

MOW-holier-than-thou Christian whore
2 yr EA, 2-3 mon PA

Posts: 31 | Registered: Mar 2013
♀ 34353
Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think its a red flag of some kind and I would ask him about it and see if he is honest

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1769 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
♂ 31240
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, June 30th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's also possible that you inadvertently hit some keys in a sequence that put the site on the restricted list.

It's impossible to tests every potential key sequence, and strange things can happen. I'm not saying this did happen in your sitch, but it certainly can.

Certainly you pretty much have to be pretty vigilant, but remember that this could have been an accident.

[This message edited by sisoon at 9:52 AM, June 30th (Sunday)]

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

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