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The gut is always right

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 soveryweary (original poster member #32265) posted at 1:37 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013

After numerous d days with the same woman' my gut was SCREAMING.

I put a VAR in today and lo and behold the S.O.B. met up with her today.

It killed me, talking about MYmkids and what's going on with my life. Lots of lies he told her, I'm so glad to know he's lying to her as well.

I jumped the gun amd messages several of her friends and her sister that she was having an almost 4 year affair with my husband. I regret that, I wanted to act with dignit. Let the chips fall where they may.

I also messages her husbands sister to have him get ahold of me. I could never find him and my therapist talked me out off telling him years ago. My bad.

I also lst it in front if my daughter, I apologized and she just asked to be kept out of, it.

Thenragenhasnsubsided, amazing what taking 3 Xanax can do.

He's still denying. Idiot!! Starting a HARDb180, he's not going to know what hit him.

Henrecentlympurchased a gun, myntwomdearestmfriends know, one has the VAR and my other evidence.

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

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 soveryweary (original poster member #32265) posted at 1:39 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013

So sorry for all the run ons, I'm a bit loopy. Hope it still makes sense.

I hope he drops dead.

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

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PhoenixRisen ( member #35912) posted at 2:41 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013

(((svw)))

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Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 2:54 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013

I'm sorry, SVW.

Glad you got the evidence you needed, though and can start what you have to do next, whatever it will be.

Happy Pants stbx lied profusely to Fatty B (OW) to get her where he wanted and he lied to me to get me where he wanted.

The lies catch up and soon your WH will not be able to run from them or cover his tracks. I think lies just can't win for very long, FWIW.

I am trying to act with dignity, too. I pretend they are both dead, for the most part, because for all intents and purposes of my life, he is. And I don't want Fatty B to have any importance in my life-she's just a factor of what he did-so I don't spend as much time thinking about "it" as I have before.

I'm sorry for your hard time and wish you peace on the journey you've been thrust upon.

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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 soveryweary (original poster member #32265) posted at 5:50 AM on Sunday, June 30th, 2013

Thank you Phoenix and Ashland.

After taking enough Xanax and Tylenol 2's, I'm up now.

I like your idea of pretending the are dead, I was just bout to fire off more messages. My friend said to just law low and keep him guessing. That will make him crazy because I have in the past blurted out everything. I know it's eating him up he can't figure hie I know. I love it!!!

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

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