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QuietStand
♂ 39474
Member # 39474
Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi, I'm QS. Husband to Aubrie. Finally got the nerve to create a profile here. Want to thank the admins for their vision and dedication to have a place like this where people in our position can gain support and understanding. Always been more of a reader and not much of a talker. Reading the stories, struggles, and triumphs here have been helpful and encouraging.

Might take some time but maybe I'll get to a place where I can freely and openly dispense with comments and advice. Till then, lurkdom and the occasional comment will suffice.

Thanks for being here SI.


BH - 32
FWW - Aubrie
Reconciling

Posts: 4 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Tennessee
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome, QuietStand. So glad you've joined us. Use SI however best works for you - whether posting, reading, or both. And remember to take what works for you and leave the rest.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26192 | Registered: Aug 2011
brkn_heartd
♀ 30396
Member # 30396
Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome QuietStand. There is a tremendous amount of support here. We are glad you have decided to make a profile. There is a lot of collective wisdom here. We will be glad to have you contribute (frequently or occasionally!)


Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1683 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
pendant
♀ 32890
Member # 32890
Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome, and good news. A positive proactive step which leads me to think that you are in R. (not that clued up as I am a member who comes back now and then for healing, or paying it fwd)Either way, major step for both of you


"Once forgiving begins, dreams can be rebuilt. When forgiving is complete, meaning has been extracted from the worst of experiences and used to create a new set of moral rules and a new interpretation of life's events."

Posts: 423 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: North Carolina
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome QS.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53011 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Lyonesse
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Member # 32943
Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1799 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you decided to jump in


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37626 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Member # 18449
Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi!!

Posts: 11791 | Registered: Mar 2008
HeavyE
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Member # 19333
Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome.


You can't change the wind, but you can adjust your sails.

Me Tarzan
Her Jane

Reconciled
D-Day 4/14/08


Posts: 9561 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Birthplace of America's Music
DixieD
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Member # 33457
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome and no pressure.


Growing forward

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2781 | Registered: Jan 2010
stilllovingher
♂ 29959
Member # 29959
Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

well hoe-lee-schnikees!!!

how it do, mang?


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

Posts: 2407 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still BFE, but now BFE, CA
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3644 | Registered: Oct 2011
WakingFromADream
♂ 33934
Member # 33934
Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


Posts: 1148 | Registered: Nov 2011
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello, and welcome, QuietStand!

Was going to provide you with some additional words, but I think the first few posters summed up what I was going to say pretty well!

Good to have you here, man.


Posts: 8009 | Registered: Dec 2010
solus sto
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Member # 30989
Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome, QS


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 9043 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, June 30th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome..


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5547 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 1:06 AM, June 30th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hi brother,

it only took me about 6 months to make my first post.

talk about a club you never wanted to join.

I am so sorry you are here, glad you made it.

strength


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3172 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 6:26 AM, June 30th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome

SI has been a life saver for me. I hope you find what you need here.


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2670 | Registered: Aug 2012
selkiescot
♀ 23777
Member # 23777
Default  Posted: 6:52 AM, June 30th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

welcome


The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.

Posts: 1411 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: CT
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