BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
My XH has decided, once again, to not take the kids for his vacation time this summer. You know, that costs money, and god forbid he spend his cash on his kids.
It's been 4 years, and I have never taken my vacation time properly...but that's because I am off all summer with them, and felt guilty telling him I was keeping the kids and denying him a dinner with them, more or less.
So, this year, I said screw it, I want 2 weeks this summer where I don't have to see his face, hear his voice or deal with him at all. So, I emailed him one week in July and one in August that would be "my" weeks with the kids.
He emailed me back...those weeks are fine...I guess I will celebrate my birthday with them the next week. I KNEW something seemed familiar about that date! I totally didn't place it as his birthday!
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.