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summerain posted 7/1/2013 03:52 AM

When my wh butt dialled me and I've been listening to a static boring conversation for 20 mins

stillhere09 posted 7/1/2013 06:44 AM

I know the feeling.

Putto posted 7/1/2013 10:19 AM

:hug:

I once listened to a 15 minute voicemail accidentally left by WS while he was driving, then making idle conversation at the credit union.

Yes, its a sign of lack of trust, but also its an opportunity for him to make a deposit into the "trust bank" without him actually knowing.

circleoflife posted 7/1/2013 11:36 AM

I would do the same thing!

Nature_Girl posted 7/1/2013 14:22 PM

I did the same thing several years ago. Butt dial, I kept listening. Heard driving sounds, heard him insulting other drivers, heard him having a conversation with himself (he did this sometimes, and it's one reason why I sometimes think he's got a split personality). Kept listening until he pulled into the driveway. Bizarre.

huRtZ413 posted 7/1/2013 16:52 PM

i did this too! while he was at work but good thing he was just cursing out his buddies and laughing about how some guy messed up . or talking about how many reps the other can do in the gym lol

Ostrich80 posted 7/1/2013 17:50 PM

I've done the same thing.
I was actually wanting to hear something because I never get a slip up from him.

GingerAle posted 7/1/2013 18:00 PM

My FWH is a professional butt dialer...does it to me at least twice a week! And 2 1/2 years from DDay, I still listen. And we are doing good in R. I look forward to the day I don't need to listen. I like what Putto said about it being an opportunity to make a deposit in the trust bank

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