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 summerain (original poster member #37439) posted at 9:52 AM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

When my wh butt dialled me and I've been listening to a static boring conversation for 20 mins

OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

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stillhere09 ( member #24924) posted at 12:44 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

I know the feeling.

Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M

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Putto ( member #38261) posted at 4:19 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

:hug:

I once listened to a 15 minute voicemail accidentally left by WS while he was driving, then making idle conversation at the credit union.

Yes, its a sign of lack of trust, but also its an opportunity for him to make a deposit into the "trust bank" without him actually knowing.

I don't say much but I lurk around a lot. Thank you for baring your souls here, you've said the words I couldn't find and you've helped me heal more than I can say.

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circleoflife ( new member #39702) posted at 5:36 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

I would do the same thing!

Me BW (36)
WH (39)
together 16 years
2 kids: 6 DD & 10 month DS
Dday:4/18/13
TT: 4/26/13
TT: 5/6/13
more TT: 6/13/13
more TT: 7/9/13

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:22 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

I did the same thing several years ago. Butt dial, I kept listening. Heard driving sounds, heard him insulting other drivers, heard him having a conversation with himself (he did this sometimes, and it's one reason why I sometimes think he's got a split personality). Kept listening until he pulled into the driveway. Bizarre.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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huRtZ413 ( member #39214) posted at 10:52 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

i did this too! while he was at work but good thing he was just cursing out his buddies and laughing about how some guy messed up . or talking about how many reps the other can do in the gym lol


me_BW
him_WH


I'M ON THE FENCE


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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 11:50 PM on Monday, July 1st, 2013

I've done the same thing.

I was actually wanting to hear something because I never get a slip up from him.

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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GingerAle ( member #33822) posted at 12:00 AM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013

My FWH is a professional butt dialer...does it to me at least twice a week! And 2 1/2 years from DDay, I still listen. And we are doing good in R. I look forward to the day I don't need to listen. I like what Putto said about it being an opportunity to make a deposit in the trust bank

My EXWH: 6 month EA in 2010 OW 1

2 year Sexting/PA 2012-2014 OW2

I divorced him in May 2014

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