me too.....me too. i agree with Confused. The complete and total lack of respect...the fact that the person who swore to love us intentionally made a choice they knew would cause such devastation.....the fact that it happened right under our nose....how did we not see it? how were we so blind? I think thats the most humiliating part for me. I feel so stupid.
I have read this here so many times, and i believe its true.....it was his choice. There was nothing you did to make him make that choice.