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hopeful18 posted 7/1/2013 11:39 AM

I have experienced many emotions during R. However the past few days I feel an overwhelming sense of humiliation on so many levels. I feel humiliated that wh cheated on me. I feel humiliated imagining him with ow. Both the ea and pa ows. I feel humiliated that we had sex when he was not attracted to me and I had no idea. I feel humiliated that he thought so little of me. I feel humiated that I gave him a second chance and he did it again. I even strangely feel humiliated at mc. (Mc did nothing to make me feel that way). Wh is doing a lot of things right this time around in terms of R.
Why do I feel such deep humiliation?

confused615 posted 7/1/2013 11:44 AM

Because being treated with such disrespect,such a lack of regard for our emotional and physical well being, is humiliating. Giving another chance,only to have them shit all over it is humiliating.

Im humiliated too.

betraydtwice posted 7/1/2013 11:54 AM

I have never been so humiliated in all my life.. To imagine him telling someone else about me and my M....hate him today..tomorrow????

SorrowBhindSmile posted 7/1/2013 13:26 PM

me too.....me too. i agree with Confused. The complete and total lack of respect...the fact that the person who swore to love us intentionally made a choice they knew would cause such devastation.....the fact that it happened right under our nose....how did we not see it? how were we so blind? I think thats the most humiliating part for me. I feel so stupid.

I have read this here so many times, and i believe its true.....it was his choice. There was nothing you did to make him make that choice.

jjsr posted 7/1/2013 14:06 PM

You have nothing to feel ashamed about. He broke his vows, not you. I think all BS feel this way, but what I have learned going thru this is it doesn't matter if I gained weight, or was bitchy or whatever, he made the choice to cheat and I didn't do anything wrong.

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