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residencywife93 posted 7/1/2013 13:09 PM

Not sure if we're reconciling or divorcing... But I have been out of the house since 6/9. I need to stay out of town for work through 7/20. I would like to come back 7/21.

He keeps saying he needs "space". Confident that A is over as she started a new job today in a new city (where I currently am right now- ugh)

I've given him what will be six weeks. I have 180-Ed. I think I'm ready to go back and not be emotional. Can I just go back? It's my house too! If he has a problem can't he leave then? He is a bully and keeps saying I'm "pushing" him and frankly I'm pretty tired of hearing that one as frankly, I don't give a damn. I've made some consultations with lawyers to know my rights, but I need to be in the same city to meet with them.

What do you all think?

wifehad5 posted 7/1/2013 17:30 PM

It's my house too! If he has a problem can't he leave then? He is a bully and keeps saying I'm "pushing" him and frankly I'm pretty tired of hearing that one as frankly, I don't give a damn.

I think you make some really good points here

Jospehine85 posted 7/1/2013 19:06 PM

He is not the victim here. You are.

Stop letting him reverse the roles.

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