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User Topic: One Final Question.....Today!!
♀ 32265
Member # 32265
Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am having a very hard time grasping what kind of person has an almost 4 year affair, all the while declaring his undying love for his spouse, just the other night he said that that part of his behavior was done.
What kind of person is having that 4 year affair, taking 3 trips to Mexico with his wife and making future plans.
What kind of person, who for our whole marriage did absolutely everything for his kids and loves them so, would have a 4 year affair and know they could find out?
What kind of person, seeing his wife agonized and in pain, loose way too much weight and become so distrustful, have a 4 year affair?
And one last thing, what kind of woman has a 4 year affair with a man, knowing he's going on these trips with his wife, doing family things.
I just can't wrap my brain around it.

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

Posts: 634 | Registered: May 2011
♀ 39214
Member # 39214
Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry your hurt , same here .

the time in your case im sure really F****s with your mind.

idk what to say other than you didnt deserve it.

maybe hes confused idk maybe hes just the have the cake and eat it too arent they all?

what kind of person?? a selfish person, and irrational person a person that cant solve problems .



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
♀ 38141
Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's a million dollar question!

I ask my wh often - "Why and How"?

I don't know that any answer will ever satisfy me.

ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure

Posts: 663 | Registered: Jan 2013
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