OW is the one in this situation who "threw STBX under the bus. At the end of false reconciliation, he told me he was actually glad and relieved, because he would not have told me about the affair, he thinks.
I am 5.5. months from Dday and still bits and pieces like that and his voice creep into my mind.
Ow fought tooth and nail to keep him also, and also knows he is married and also knows his wife is pregnant (me), and I'm told not to but can't help but wonder what kind of person this is?
She took my pictures from him, too, of my family and him and put them online with these awful emoticons and dates, the whole ball of wax.
I'm sorry for all of you who have this problem and have spent long periods trying to understand people who won't slam the door on a married person.
I've heard many reasons but maybe because I would not do it, I don't get it?
I could go on and on and feel a rant coming.
I just wanted to say that even though I had to initialize divorce, I'm with you in spirit and concept.
I fought tooth and nail for my marriage and lost.
I wish you all health and peace...and some clarity to come.
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.