Me- BW 43
My divorce was about to be finalized earlier this month, but at the last minute, his lawyer threw in something I hadn't seen before. Essentially its a provision in the final agreement that says that neither of us can being anyone we're dating into the house
Our house has been on the market for 7 months with no offers. I have no idea how long it will take to sell it and move on with our lives, but in the mean time, we are forced to both live in the house. He pretty much moved out...he removed all of his things, and only comes to the house when its his nights with the kids, and even then he often takes them to his parent's home.
So if I agree with this, it basically allows him to say that until we sell the house, I can't bring anyone I'm seeing into the home. We've been separated for a year. I have no idea how long it will take until we finally sell the house and I do not like the idea of him placing limits on my personal life, especially when he is barely in the home.
Has anyone had this before and if so, how did it work? Was it time limited? Did it just account for over night stays? Help....I feel very frustrated and controlled and don't know how to proceed.
Him- WH 35
1stDday Dday 4-19-12
Married 9 yrs
Divorce sched for June 2013
2 kids 5 & 8
W/H-currently has a new girlfriend. We are still living in same house.