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User Topic: Not triggering from infidelity in B.S.G.
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like science fiction, so I've been watching Battlestar Galactica on Netflix. I saw it years ago, so I knew there was lots of infidelity in it. But I like the show so I wanted to watch it again.

To my delight I'm not feeling any triggers at all. I'm sure a big reason why is because I knew it was coming. But also I'm healed enough to see the dysfunction in the relationships, able to dissect the conversations & situations and see just where things are wrong, how I would have reacted long ago contrasted with how I react & think now.

I actually am getting better. Wow.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
♀ 34352
Member # 34352
Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BS 51 and Freaking AWESOME!
Him: Who the fuck cares........

Posts: 259 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Puget Sound
♀ 34525
Member # 34525
Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is HUGE, NG!!!!

So happy for you - enjoy BSG!!!

BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
Topic Posts: 3

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