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User Topic: custody mojo please
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not for me, for my DD.

Short backstory. DD and SIL had let a friend and her son move in until she could get back on her feet. Said friend turned into OW (nice, huh?) The usual A bullcrsp ensued and DD and SIL separated. No chance of R.

Anyway, DD and her SO moved to Wisconsin last year along with my two GDs. GS stayed with his dad until school let out. Now however, GS is with DD and SO. So, they have all 4 kids now.

Now, they're going for full custody of all the kids. Considering the on again, off again relationship of SIL and OW I think this would be best for the grandkids (but I guess I could be called biased... just a little...)

So any mojo you can spare for them would be appreciated. I truly do want what's best for them even if it means I won't be able to see them as often as I'd like.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MOJO


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks jrc.

From what DD told us (and from what I infer) she's going to file for custody and D at the same time.

I know the on again, off again relationship between SIL and OW will not be good for the kids. I know they need stability and they really wouldn't get that with their dad considering the situation.

I've given her the standatd advice given to those in the D/S forum to document, document, document and she's been doing that for at least a year now. I'm hoping that will help her with custody.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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jo2love
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Red  Posted: 8:36 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Clarrissa -

Please remember that OT is infidelity free. Please let me know if you would like this thread moved to Gen so you can expand on this topic. Thank you.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending court mojo and strength.

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending custody Mojo...

Hugs for gramma too.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jo, sorry if I posted in the wrong forum. I thought OT was the correct one even though the roots of my DDs sitch are A related.

If you feel General is the proper one, please move.

[This message edited by Clarrissa at 10:11 PM, July 1st (Monday)]


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 11:30 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh ! It hurts to see our grandkids going thru this crap too !We feel so helpless.
Sending MOJO for the custody and they find some peace.


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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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