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Undefinabl3 (original poster member #36883) posted at 3:34 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
I wish I could be more help to her, but it's so hard to watch all the crap that her unremorseful WS is putting her through.
I have directed her here, she said that she was so overwelmed that she had to leave....I told her to just stay in the JFO, but I am not sure if she has registered or been back.
Basically, they were together for years before they actually got married, and then now he decides that he would rather have his high school sweet heart (Glitterpuss) then her.
She's literally been through massively difficult times with him. Stood by each other through all of it, and then this happens.
My friend knows i am WS, i told her right off the bat and she has been greatful for the 'other side' to have a better idea of what maybe he is thinking.
I just want to punch him in the throat, and then I think 'how hypocritical of me' but then i just want to punch him in the throat again.
Today is her birthday - she got a 2 sentance happy birthday....tomorrow is Glitterpuss's birthday and they have plans.
Just need some friend MOJO - and if you are reading this now girl....stay strong and FTG!
Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's
sodamnlost ( member #37190) posted at 4:07 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
One of my best friends friends is also in this horrible boat, her story is too dramatic and twisted for Jerry Springer even. For me it's hardest to watch her not stand up for herself and leave him and say FTG. She's not there yet. All I can do is be there for her and hope she finds her rockbottom soon.
(((HUGS)))
Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016
Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 8:24 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
it's nice to be able to help and lean on each other. I have many friends and some are BS one is WS and I am a madhatter. These friends have been my rock and I have been theirs through these awful experiences.
Undefinabl3 I am glad you are there for your friend.
(((Undefinabl3's friend)))
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Divorced 8/2024
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:28 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
I really hope that I never find out another friend is a WS or BS but I'm sure it will happen. It's happened too many times. You're a good friend U3.
girlsbird ( member #30877) posted at 8:40 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Sending mojo to your friend and to you. I went thru this about 18 months a go with a good friend also and also with my son. It was tough, I wanted to punch both him and my daughter in law. Fast forward to today and it seems they are all healing and reconciling.
Need to thank all here for teaching me how to help!
D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed
Undefinabl3 (original poster member #36883) posted at 1:25 PM on Wednesday, July 3rd, 2013
Thank you...i am trying to be the best, but honestly this has been like the biggest HD mirror on what I did and i am triggering a lot.
I am pretty sure that the WS is living with Glitterpuss, and she's quite a catch - 6 kids by 5 daddy's, being proud of getting her high school sweetheart back 'after all these years'. Makes me want to seriously puke - I can only imagine how my friend feels.
I have pushing her to the 180 to save her sanity...she did get out a little for her birthday thankfully. If I could afford to give her the money for a divorce I would, but FL is expensive!
Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's
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