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abigailadams (original poster member #37556) posted at 9:50 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
If you get child support, does your s/d agreement specify when you get it? Is there something that is standard?
Me BS 55
Him WS 53
Married 10 years together 13
DDay October 11, 2012
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 10:07 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Our state guideline standard is the first of every month and it is specified in the agreement.
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 10:08 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
The draft I'm working on specifies the first of the month.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
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HopeImOverIt ( member #34517) posted at 10:43 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Mine also specifies that the payment is "late" after the 5th of the month, and that if he's late more than 2 times I can take the matter to my state's child support enforcement agency.
Interestingly HIS lawyer put that in. MY lawyer told me I can take it to the agency at any time, so that clause doesn't really require me to wait until he's late 3 times. Still, I liked the wording of it.
Me: BW (52)
ExWH: (53)
2 teen-age boys
Divorced
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 11:09 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Mine's supposed to be the first of the month. Of course today is the second and no check. 
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 11:56 PM on Tuesday, July 2nd, 2013
Mine specifically says on the first day of the month.
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So shake him off
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peridot ( member #18334) posted at 12:36 AM on Wednesday, July 3rd, 2013
Mine says on the first day of the month.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
movingforward13 ( member #38405) posted at 6:44 PM on Wednesday, July 3rd, 2013
Any way to appeal to support enforcement? Mine is a weekly payment garnished via his employer.
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whyohwhyohwhy ( member #17890) posted at 7:02 PM on Wednesday, July 3rd, 2013
Mine (child support and alimony) is every two weeks.
It's garnished by the state through his employer and direct deposited in my bank account.
I can't tell you how much easier it is than sweating it out every month.
Life goes on.
Me:50 BS
Him: X, 54 PA SA NPD?
2 kids; DD17, DD11 divorced
lostmommy ( member #33440) posted at 7:04 PM on Wednesday, July 3rd, 2013
Mine is garnished every week from his paycheck. Best thing I ever did.
I love child support Tuesdays! 
Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
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