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Topic: child support question
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abigailadams
♀ 37556
Member # 37556 |  Posted: 3:50 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013 |     |
If you get child support, does your s/d agreement specify when you get it? Is there something that is standard?
Me BS 55
Him WS 53
Married 10 years together 13
DDay October 11, 2012
Posts: 134 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Brooklyn, NY |
Phoenix1
♀ 38928
Member # 38928 | | Posted: 4:07 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Our state guideline standard is the first of every month and it is specified in the agreement.
BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet
Posts: 1360 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes! |
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 4:08 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
The draft I'm working on specifies the first of the month.
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Posts: 10288 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
HopeImOverIt
♀ 34517
Member # 34517 | | Posted: 4:43 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Mine also specifies that the payment is "late" after the 5th of the month, and that if he's late more than 2 times I can take the matter to my state's child support enforcement agency.
Interestingly HIS lawyer put that in. MY lawyer told me I can take it to the agency at any time, so that clause doesn't really require me to wait until he's late 3 times. Still, I liked the wording of it.
Me: BW (50)
ExWH: (51)
2 teen-age boys
Divorced
Posts: 275 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: PA |
ButterflyGirl
♀ 38377
Member # 38377 | | Posted: 5:09 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Mine's supposed to be the first of the month. Of course today is the second and no check. 
xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
Posts: 2789 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida |
Dreamboat
♀ 10506
Member # 10506 | | Posted: 5:56 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Mine specifically says on the first day of the month.
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :) |
peridot
♀ 18334
Member # 18334 | | Posted: 6:36 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Mine says on the first day of the month.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
Posts: 4823 | Registered: Feb 2008 |
movingforward13
♀ 38405
Member # 38405 | | Posted: 12:44 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Any way to appeal to support enforcement? Mine is a weekly payment garnished via his employer.
Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!
Posts: 645 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC |
whyohwhyohwhy
♀ 17890
Member # 17890 | | Posted: 1:02 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Mine (child support and alimony) is every two weeks.
It's garnished by the state through his employer and direct deposited in my bank account.
I can't tell you how much easier it is than sweating it out every month.
what did I ever do to deserve this?
Me:47 BS
Him: X, 51 PA SA NPD?
2 kids; DD14, DD8 divorced
Posts: 1046 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: east coast |
lostmommy
♀ 33440
Member # 33440 | | Posted: 1:04 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Mine is garnished every week from his paycheck. Best thing I ever did.
I love child support Tuesdays! 
Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself
Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY |
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