Does she have any legal way to get him to leave? She would leave herself but she doesn't want to uproot her children.
I'm assuming she doesn't have a police report, which makes it difficult to "prove" he is a danger to her or the kids, but I'd say go see a lawyer, and see if she can file, having temp orders drawn up giving her exclusive use. That would be the first step.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Depending on the state, she may be able to file right away for "absolute divorce," versus having to be separated for X amount of time. In many states, certain factors provide the basis for absolute divorce - including but not limited to infidelity (if you can prove it - my friend did), alcohol and/or drug addiction, violence/physical abuse, etc.
Best of luck to your friend!
I don't think she's ready to file but she does want him to know she's serious (I don't think he thinks she is, at all).
ETA - and thank you!
[This message edited by JanaGreen at 3:55 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday)]
It is what it is.