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User Topic: Update...Karma is a bitch and has puppies...2.5 years later
♀ 30619
Member # 30619
Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi! It's been awhile since I have posted but thought I would share a quick update. I often thought that karma would never come back to get XH and OW but sure enough much like everyone said on here it does...not long ago I received a picture of a FB post that ow had posted. Normally I would say I don't really care but....this was too good not to look at. It was a private convo between ow and another girl asking if this girl had sex w XH at bar one night bc she didn't want to break up her family if it wasn't true. This girl came back and said yes she had no idea he had a family. This entire convo was posted on FB for all to see including XH. i feel awful for the OC bc obviously XH will never learn but a part of me was secretly very satisfied that this happened.
(((Big hugs to everyone!! )))) I'm 2.5 years and and rarely think about my XH and haven't talked to him in a year. It does get easier.

Me: 31

Divorced 12/12/11

"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes. I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best"

Posts: 528 | Registered: Jan 2011
♀ 36519
Member # 36519
Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, wow! That's one crazy story. OW got herself a real winner, there. I wonder if she gets it?

BS (me): 51
WS: 52
Married: 27 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

Posts: 1064 | Registered: Aug 2012
♀ 23547
Member # 23547
Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweeeeet!! Serves her right!

FBS, been through the D marathon too.
Many D Days in April 2009
Multiple affairs, LTAs, and many OWs
Reconciled... There is hope! :)

Posts: 977 | Registered: Apr 2009
♂ 38681
Member # 38681
Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow one more confirmation that karma strikes when we stop caring and move on.

BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Mar 2013
♀ 34262
Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shocking that a cheater would cheat like that!

Me: BS 48
Her: FWS 51 (both family med MDs; together 21 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

Posts: 3003 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Here
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:29 AM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm hoping OWUmpteen cheats on him before he gets the chance to cheat on her. I'd be surprised if she hasn't already.

If they cheat WITH you there's going to cheat ON you.

I am SOOOOO glad he is not my rabid dog to keep on a leash anymore.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 6000 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
♀ 15942
Member # 15942
Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When you step in dodo and track into your tends to stink up the joint.

WS 45
BS 43

Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.

d-day 4-3-07

Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.

Posts: 4052 | Registered: Aug 2007
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