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User Topic: Tis the Season!!!
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Infidelity season, that is!!

My WH had 2 ONSs and 1 short term fling last summer and today I triggered hard.

Before his ONS with a stripper, I accompanied him to a doctors appointment. Today we went back to that same office and everything came flooding back. I actually started triggering last night - vivid nightmares punctuated by periods of racing thoughts. I didn't recognize it at first.

I told him what I was feeling and he looked so sad and it helped to see him share the load (of sadness) with me.

Just a rough day I guess!


Posts: 306 | Registered: Mar 2013
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Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ohhh the A season is no fun at all. As intense as things seem to ratchet up, they recede more swiftly than you'd expect.

I'm really glad that he is present with you and holding you through it. Sending hugs and strength.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 33 years, Together 40 years - Reconciled

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Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is A season for me too. I was up until 12:30am (I'm very pregnant so that is WAY too late for me) with mind movies and reconstructing last summer in my mind. It sucks :( I don't have much to offer other than I'm struggling too.

Taking it one day at a time.

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