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Tis the Season!!!

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mysticpenguin posted 7/3/2013 22:49 PM

Infidelity season, that is!!

My WH had 2 ONSs and 1 short term fling last summer and today I triggered hard.

Before his ONS with a stripper, I accompanied him to a doctors appointment. Today we went back to that same office and everything came flooding back. I actually started triggering last night - vivid nightmares punctuated by periods of racing thoughts. I didn't recognize it at first.

I told him what I was feeling and he looked so sad and it helped to see him share the load (of sadness) with me.

Just a rough day I guess!

Jrazz posted 7/3/2013 23:36 PM

Ohhh the A season is no fun at all. As intense as things seem to ratchet up, they recede more swiftly than you'd expect.

I'm really glad that he is present with you and holding you through it. Sending hugs and strength.


HardenMyHeart posted 7/4/2013 19:32 PM


Althea posted 7/5/2013 07:06 AM

It is A season for me too. I was up until 12:30am (I'm very pregnant so that is WAY too late for me) with mind movies and reconstructing last summer in my mind. It sucks :( I don't have much to offer other than I'm struggling too.

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