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mysticpenguin (original poster member #38839) posted at 4:49 AM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013
Infidelity season, that is!!
My WH had 2 ONSs and 1 short term fling last summer and today I triggered hard.
Before his ONS with a stripper, I accompanied him to a doctors appointment. Today we went back to that same office and everything came flooding back. I actually started triggering last night - vivid nightmares punctuated by periods of racing thoughts. I didn't recognize it at first.
I told him what I was feeling and he looked so sad and it helped to see him share the load (of sadness) with me.
Just a rough day I guess!
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:36 AM on Thursday, July 4th, 2013
Ohhh the A season is no fun at all. 
As intense as things seem to ratchet up, they recede more swiftly than you'd expect.
I'm really glad that he is present with you and holding you through it. Sending hugs and strength.
(((mysticpenguin)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 1:32 AM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
Althea ( member #37765) posted at 1:06 PM on Friday, July 5th, 2013
It is A season for me too. I was up until 12:30am (I'm very pregnant so that is WAY too late for me) with mind movies and reconstructing last summer in my mind. It sucks :( I don't have much to offer other than I'm struggling too.
Taking it one day at a time.
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