Geez, SG, what did you do? Did you lie to him for months, fuck someone else, treat him like shit while doing it, make him feel responsible for the shit you were doing, badmouth him to his whore, shatter his entire fucking existence? No? Because THAT'S what I'd call unbelievably mean.
Can you tell that I've been told I'm mean too? Before, during and after my WH's 6 and a half year A. I guess it's really mean of us not to just lie down and be shit on and not say thanks a lot for being here. And definitely don't be mean after you've been told that he's sorry.
Sorry to rant. Pissed off for the both of us, but mostly just sad.
Hugs to you, SG! You're not mean. He's lucky you're still around.