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User Topic: Sick to my stomach
ALittleLost
♀ 36152
Member # 36152
Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have not seen him in 6 months. He is coming to see the kids and it is time to finally tell the 7 yr old (who thinks Daddy has been away at work).

The next 10 days are going to be really hard.

He has been cycling from nasty to nice. I don't want to see him.

God grant me strength ......


BS Me 38
WH Him 39
Married 12 years
DS1 7 yrs, DS2 1 yr

DD1 Sep 2011 all a lie
DD2 Jun 2012 found his secret email
3 Confirmed EA/PA over span of 2.5 yrs
Still with OW#3 - 23rd old gold digger
At least 3 visits to Prostitutes
Status: D


Posts: 69 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Overseas
deeplysad
♀ 16590
Member # 16590
Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Lost)))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3260 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
Jennifer99
♀ 39551
Member # 39551
Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Huge hugs. I wish I could send you strength. That sucks.

Posts: 556 | Registered: Jun 2013
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Focus on the kids while he's there. And remember that once this bandaid is pulled off, which is absolutely necessary but painful, you are moving a step forward. Sending you and your kids strength and comfort.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26476 | Registered: Aug 2011
fallingquickly
♀ 36599
Member # 36599
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ALittleLost)))


Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.


Posts: 455 | Registered: Aug 2012
soveryweary
♀ 32265
Member # 32265
Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength sweetie, and hoping that sick feeling goes away.


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 628 | Registered: May 2011
ALittleLost
♀ 36152
Member # 36152
Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On the positive side, DS took it pretty well. Not sure he really understands all the implications yet. He didn't cry. He didn't really react. He had some questions. And the tough part .... his first question ... "Can I go live with Daddy for a while?"

Ouch ....

But he has not seen his Dad in 6 months - he is a little boy and has missed him terribly.


BS Me 38
WH Him 39
Married 12 years
DS1 7 yrs, DS2 1 yr

DD1 Sep 2011 all a lie
DD2 Jun 2012 found his secret email
3 Confirmed EA/PA over span of 2.5 yrs
Still with OW#3 - 23rd old gold digger
At least 3 visits to Prostitutes
Status: D


Posts: 69 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Overseas
Topic Posts: 7

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