She may not be initiating contact because she thinks you don't want it. Kind of like she is afraid to "poke the bear". She is deferring to you to let you set the path of your healing.
Or it could be she has moved on.
You will find out tomorrow.
When you talk to her Bronenheart777, as much as you'll want to lash out and yell and hurt her, try to avoid that.
Instead of making a snide comment to express your pain, instead say how you are feeling and why.
Example" "it really makes me feel worthless that you put someone else as a priority over me"
While a snide comment might make you feel temporarily better, it will most likely put her on the defensive or deep in to a shame state. She isn't going to be able to support you emotionally then.
If you state your emotions, she will be more able to give you reassurance or emotional support and THAT will make you feel better longer than a snide comment.
You will lash out at times. Everyone does. But if you go back and say, "i know I lashed out. What I was trying to convery is (fill in the blank)", in the long run you will get more results.
How have you been dealing with your pain Brokenheart?