Topic: So... I got roses...
Member # 10552
| Posted: 5:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
My busy season at work is from July to mid-October. This year is going to be especially bad because I'm the only IT person and I'm on call 24/7. It's been pretty hairy so far... I've been working long hours around the clock.
But... a guy I've known for about ten years sent me a dozen roses, which I received on the same day we started production at work. They're even more awesome because he knows I like opals and the name of the color has "opal" in it and they're all blue, green, yellow and purple.
He knows I'm super busy for the next 100ish days but has officially asked me out for when production is over. He said he's patient and I'm worth the wait.
I know a lot can happen between now and then and it very well may not happen but yeah... it still made me smile.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 16070 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 21964
| Posted: 5:34 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
What a lovely gesture! And the understanding is nice too!
Posts: 3446 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Member # 34426
| Posted: 5:36 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Enjoy the feeling
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
Posts: 682 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
Member # 20849
| Posted: 5:48 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 16236 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
Member # 31468
| Posted: 5:53 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Awwwww wb, that's really cool.
Status: D 2011
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Member # 31528
| Posted: 6:07 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Posts: 50921 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 31349
| Posted: 6:15 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Oooooh, that's fun.
That's such a specific gesture... I think that if you want something to happen, the door seems pretty open.
"Squee" either way!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
|Sad in AZ|
Member # 24239
| Posted: 6:20 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
Member # 26928
| Posted: 6:21 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Classy way to ask! Niiiiice.
Me - 45
DD(24), DS(21, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
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Posts: 9972 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There
Member # 20470
| Posted: 6:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Love this! What a sweet gesturre. :)
M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.
Posts: 534 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Alaska
Member # 5372
| Posted: 6:30 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
Fantastic! You are definitely someone who deserves roses and you ARE worth the wait~!
Filed for divorce 9/2006
We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."
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Member # 33226
| Posted: 6:37 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
You can call me NIK
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Posts: 40250 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 12475
| Posted: 8:17 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
That is so thoughtful and wonderful of him. Very glad he recognizes the fact that you are certainly worth he wait.
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Posts: 8256 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
Member # 26023
| Posted: 10:51 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
BH, now divorced
Posts: 3529 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: New England
Member # 35229
| Posted: 5:53 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
What a thoughtful and lovely gesture.
I like this one.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 6010 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 28376
| Posted: 11:21 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Didn't think there were any still out there with that kind of class!
You soooo deserve to be treated in this manner. Enjoy it!
Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted
Posts: 1260 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
Member # 28812
| Posted: 11:29 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Me-29, F Divorced for three years now & enjoying rediscovering myself
Posts: 293 | Registered: Jun 2010
Member # 16935
| Posted: 12:19 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Love this! There are still good ones in this world.
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Member # 36445
| Posted: 4:45 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013|
awww that is nice. Hope the wait isn't too long
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Posts: 1530 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 7685
| Posted: 7:09 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013|
Twinnie, you are so amazing, I am glad someone has stepped up to the plate to show you that. xoxoxoxo
Red Headed Imps 14 & 11
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My new life is GRAND.
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Posts: 2321 | Registered: Jul 2005 | From: Greater Seattle Area
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