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LA44 posted 7/4/2013 20:16 PM

It's been a rough week or so with a few blow ups sprinkled in here and there. I know the next two weeks will have its moments. Going "home" always does even in good times.

My H "talked me down" at 5:30 am today. I was throwing my underwear in a bag when I didn't really want to be doing that at all. I had to stop and listen and just settle down. I bit my tongue as karmahappens suggested a few days ago. It was the right thing to do. He was really trying.

Anyway, we all have to remember that R is not linear. We go forward, we go back but then we go forward again and again. We will get there.

Slow and steady wins the race right?

LA

[This message edited by LA44 at 8:16 PM, July 4th (Thursday)]

Lostinthismess posted 7/4/2013 23:50 PM

I want a like button, because just yes. I wish I could just stay on a straight path. The backs and forth is just exhausting. Slow and steady wins the race......

c1n1m1n posted 7/5/2013 00:27 AM

Sounds just like my life right now...I'm 9 months since I found out. I too have been "throwing my underwear in a bag"...seems once every three weeks or so. I try to stop and look back at the progress and not concentrate on that "trust" thing too much. Baby steps.

karmahappens posted 7/5/2013 08:03 AM

I am glad you got through it.

(((Hugs))))

yogaga1 posted 7/5/2013 09:50 AM

Needed to read this today. Things have been great- just got back from a lovely vacation together that we needed. Then...boom, crash, etc! Back in the pit this week.

Just breathing right now!

jjsr posted 7/5/2013 10:17 AM

When I was at your point, I packed the car up twice. I haven't don't that now in a long time but R is not a straight line

sri624 posted 7/5/2013 13:55 PM

just yesterday, i told him he could "get the f out." and meant it. up and down. that is for sure.

foundoutlater posted 7/5/2013 15:09 PM

I have not seen anything linear in my life since we had kids LOL. You are so dead on right R is not linear. Iíve know even when my W is doing everything right I still go sideways and backwards and forwards and summersault.
Glad you were able to find a path that worked

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